I feel like you are on a path that lead to comments that can be offensive and offend many.
Obviously, it is not my intention to offend ... But sometimes we NEED to be 'offended' (just like we needed to be punished when we were young). Like when Jesus called the scribes & Pharisees "hypocrites," He did it so that they would be encouraged to stop acting that way!
But my end-goal is not 'to offend'; it should be to show you the right way, but I'm forced to be too defensive in showing you "your way is wrong" that I forget to show the right way.