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Off-Topic / Re: How often are you late?
« on: June 12, 2018, 03:56:25 pm »Message ID: 1221607
I'm late for work pretty much every day. But I start earlier than almost everyone else in the office, so it doesn't really matter. None of my managers have ever said anything about it. Also I hate my job, so I don't care anyway.  :P

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Support / Re: survey code requested
« on: June 11, 2018, 06:21:18 am »Message ID: 1221340
That hasn't happened to me (yet). So you don't get credit for completing the survey unless you enter a code?

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Off-Topic / Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« on: June 11, 2018, 06:18:46 am »Message ID: 1221337

You can do whatever you want when ever you want
Decorate the house however you want
Have as many pets as you want, let them sleep in your bed and no one can tell you no
You can eat what ever you want
You can wear whatever you want
You can go where you want to when you want to
You can go to bed when every you want
You can set the air/heat at what temp you want
You can buy what you want
You can watch what you want to on tv
You can cut your hair however you want

I am sure there are more.


I'm not trying to be a smarta$$ here, but (in my experience anyway) several of the things on this list are true whether you are single or in a relationship. I'll grant that if you are in a controlling or abusive relationship that many of these absolutely apply, but in a loving and respectful relationship I think just about all of these are still present.

I agree. Other than dating other people, you're in the wrong relationship if it comes with a bunch of restrictions.

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Off-Topic / Re: Ever have to close a really long monotonous survey ?
« on: June 10, 2018, 06:48:35 am »Message ID: 1221194
Yes, it happens to me a lot. If the page loads with 500 little buttons to click, I just close it. Or the surveys that ask you if you're familiar with a brand, and even if you say you've never heard of it, they continue to ask you questions about it. Instead of just closing the window, they should have an I Quit button that allows you to give feedback on their ridiculous survey.

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Off-Topic / Re: Has depression touched your life
« on: June 09, 2018, 09:07:35 am »Message ID: 1221007
I would have to say I have been depressed since my husband of 35 years passed away in 2010.  I can't shake it completely but I do somewhat cope.  I live with a son who is chronically depressed and that makes it harder on me to deal with my own depression.  I hope if any of you are depressed or live with someone who is that something good will happen to take this issue out of your life.

I was diagnosed with Persistent Depressive Disorder (or Dysthymia) almost 20 years ago. It's more of a mild but chronic depression, so I don't very often have severe lows. Certainly never bad enough to think about suicide. However, I don't ever feel really happy either. I can't really find anything that I enjoy, and I never really get excited about anything. I feel like I'm just going through the motions every day, and I don't understand the point of being in this world. I've tried therapists and various anti-depressants, but nothing has really made any difference. Having pets has probably been the best thing for me, since it makes me feel like I have at least some tiny reason to be here and get out of bed in the morning. I also try to exercise and practice yoga, but it's difficult to get motivated when you're depressed. I'm thankful that my husband is very supportive, but I can tell it's frustrating for him sometimes.

I had to put my dog to sleep unexpectedly several years ago. She was my canine soul mate, and maybe I'm just nuts, but I've never really recovered. I can't imagine losing my husband and what a mess I would be. I'm so sorry for your loss, and I hope you and your son will find peace and happiness despite this crazy world we live in.


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Off-Topic / Re: Apartments
« on: June 05, 2018, 04:59:00 pm »Message ID: 1220258
My current rent is $1200 for a small 1 bedroom apartment. Going to be moving soon to a slightly bigger apartment for $1600. I could never live on my own again at these rates.

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Off-Topic / Re: Unemployment Rate Drops To 3.8
« on: June 04, 2018, 04:14:41 pm »Message ID: 1219981
I have a really hard time believing these numbers, when I keep hearing every day about store closings and company layoffs. Does the unemployment rate include all the folks whose unemployment benefits ran out and they're still out of work?

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Off-Topic / Re: Unemployment Rate Drops To 3.8
« on: June 04, 2018, 04:10:37 pm »Message ID: 1219977
Listen to the employees of the following companies after the great Trump tax cut:
 1. Pfizer:  set to save billions from the tax cut is laying cutting 300 research jobs.  Research that was working on Alzheimers and Parkinsons.
 2.  At&t:  cutting 4,000 jobs
 3.  Kimberly Clark (Kleenex & Huggies and more) closing 10 factories and laying off more than 5,000 workers
 4.  Comcast:  fired 500 employees while gaining over 12 billion due to the tax cut
 5.  Harley Davidson:  Who Paul Ryan used as an example to promote the the tax plan saying they would be able to give
     raises and hire more employees.  They have plans to close the Kansas City plant, firing 800 people and have plans
     open a plant in Thailand.   
 6.  Carrier who Trump and Pence said it was a great day in America when the tax cut was announced and they said it
      keep the plant in Indiana.  One year later with it's corporate tax rate slashed Carrier laid off 215 employees and
     those jobs went to Mexico where workers earn $3.00 an hour.

There are many more major companies that have followed the same as the above, all while shareholders are getting big payoffs.
I don't see it as Country Girl does where people don't want to work, all of these people who lost their jobs WANT to work.  Do you know what it's like to be 55-60 years old and have to begin looking for a new job?   I do, it's not easy.  They won't tell you it's due to your age but you know inside, it is. Not all unemployed people "don't want to work and want a paycheck".

The tax cuts are a good thing. If YOU want to give more money to the government then by all means mail them a check every month.  I personally saw my paycheck go up quite a bit. 

I stand behind my orig comment.  Most of the people who are unemployed and just can't find a job any where are not looking for a job anywhere.  A few years ago the preacher at the church I went to was huffing about his daughter (who was and still is a criminal) and she couldn't find a job and she had looked EVERYWHERE.  I promptly told him Taco Bell is hiring.  He snarls his face and said "she is not working at Taco Bell".  Well then don't say she has tried everywhere because she hasn't.  She has tried the places that she wants to work.  Or places that paid more than the wages she was worth.  When you had no education, no skills, and have an arrest history longer than your arm you cannot expect to get a really good job.  Not going to happen.

I will never understand how people can complain about their paychecks going up. smh.  That just does not make sense.

Hmm. My paycheck never went up. In fact, my pay is exactly the same as it was 10 years ago. My rent, however, has more than doubled in that time.

Also what people fail to realize is that fast food and other lower paying jobs are not so easily gotten when you're looking for work. My husband has two degrees and was laid off for a few years. He applied several times for various positions at the gas station a block away, just to have a bit of income while he looked for something better. They wouldn't even return his calls. Retail stores rejected him without an interview, because he doesn't have retail experience. Another place said he wasn't in their policy's acceptable age range. I don't know how that's even legal.

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Off-Topic / Re: How many languages do you know?
« on: June 04, 2018, 05:40:58 am »Message ID: 1219829
I know a good deal of Spanish, as well as a bit of German and tiny bit of Japanese.

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Off-Topic / Re: roseanne
« on: June 02, 2018, 03:34:10 pm »Message ID: 1219402
Well, she (or anyone) doesn't HAVE to like any particular person or group. A person doesn't HAVE to like black people or white people or Christians or Atheists or Muslims or LGBTQ or women or men or liberals or conservatives. But it's better for everyone if you keep that to yourself. Freedom of speech does not mean freedom from consequences.

I stopped watching/reading the news and I quit all my social media accounts, because I'm so tired of everyone tearing everyone else down. The internet has really exposed how savage people can be.

Freedom of speech means just that.  You have the freedom of speech.  I can say whatever I want to say.  Saying if you do not like someone to keep it to yourself is denying freedom of speech.  I do not have to like you. I can voice that. Does not mean you have the right to get me fired from my job.  No, saying bad stuff about other people is not right but neither is a lot of other stuff going on in this world.

I have seen it happen personally where some whine bag got mad because someone said something negative about her business.  The comment made was completely true.  And it wasn't posted online or anything like that.  Just a simple comment made about something witnessed in her store.  SO she runs her mouth and ends up getting the person fired from her job.  Boils down to money talks.  And the two businesses had nothing to do with each other.  She just knew where the other person worked and went to her superiors and basically told them I want her fired or I will not do business with you any longer so they gave her what she wanted.

People are just down right evil.

Well, if you think you can say whatever you want, go for it. But it doesn't mean there won't be consequences. It's not denying your freedom of speech if you keep your dislike for someone to yourself. It's being a decent and civil person. There are people I don't like, but I don't go around bad mouthing them just because I can. It only makes them feel bad and me look bad. So what's the benefit?

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Off-Topic / Re: Do you bury dead animals or trash them ?
« on: June 02, 2018, 11:44:57 am »Message ID: 1219286
My pets will always be cremated. We have the ashes of three dogs in our house.

On a side note, I've seen maggots crawling in and out of the skin of a live dog. I thought they only fed on dead flesh.  :-X

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Off-Topic / Re: Holy weather change !
« on: June 02, 2018, 11:34:39 am »Message ID: 1219280
I'm in Minnesota too. I'm sitting on my deck listening to the rain, thinking about how it was 102 degrees less than a week ago and now it's only 59.

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Off-Topic / Re: Creaclip
« on: June 01, 2018, 03:38:27 pm »Message ID: 1218974
I've never heard of this before. I'll have to check it out. I haven't been to a salon in many years. I use a Flowbee to cut my own hair.

How is the flowbee I ALWAYS wanted to try that?

I keep my hair short, so it's pretty quick and easy to use. My husband used it too. Not sure if it would work on longer hair though.

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Off-Topic / Re: Creaclip
« on: June 01, 2018, 06:00:59 am »Message ID: 1218829
I've never heard of this before. I'll have to check it out. I haven't been to a salon in many years. I use a Flowbee to cut my own hair.

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Off-Topic / Re: roseanne
« on: May 31, 2018, 07:25:24 am »Message ID: 1218600
Well, she (or anyone) doesn't HAVE to like any particular person or group. A person doesn't HAVE to like black people or white people or Christians or Atheists or Muslims or LGBTQ or women or men or liberals or conservatives. But it's better for everyone if you keep that to yourself. Freedom of speech does not mean freedom from consequences.

I stopped watching/reading the news and I quit all my social media accounts, because I'm so tired of everyone tearing everyone else down. The internet has really exposed how savage people can be.

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