I take a heck of a lot, but right now it is a good thing sis is back in Alaska. Because I am getting mighty close to wiping up the floor with her. Besides the criticism she lies about me and or just will not tell the whole truth. She tries to make every one think I am doing anything for my dad. She only comes for 2 weeks uses him like crazy and then leaves. It is up to me to get his groceries, make sure his meds are current haul him 80 miles one way to the doctors and then also take him shopping. I never ask him to do anything for me, Hubby and I also cut wood for him and my brothers does too when he can. Oh well to each his own.