Criticisms

[batmobile]

How do you handle criticism? Some things are just rude and can't be taken back 

[oldbuddy]

I try to bite my tongue and walk away.

[hitch0403]

An answer when mild turns away rage

[sherryinutah]

I believe everyone is entitled to their own point of view; however, if I have people in my life who criticize me and what I do for them......I'll roll with the punches.

What they don't know is that I have a great memory and a passive-aggressive way of dealing with it. 

A while back I was a designated driver for a van full of drunk people.  One of the ladies decided to critcize my driving to the extent that she didn't want me to drive again.  Tonight she was ready for me to take her to the bar and back and I told her I wouldn't driver her anywhere again until she's ready to apologize.

 

[countrygirl12]

How do you handle criticism? Some things are just rude and can't be taken back 

Depends on what it is, who says it, among other things.  If it is a supervisor, boss, or someone who has a right to say something it is different than if it is some random idiot in public making comments about my hair, clothes, weight, or something else that is none of their business.

[michele2042]

I believe everyone is entitled to their own point of view; however, if I have people in my life who criticize me and what I do for them......I'll roll with the punches.

What they don't know is that I have a great memory and a passive-aggressive way of dealing with it. 

A while back I was a designated driver for a van full of drunk people.  One of the ladies decided to critcize my driving to the extent that she didn't want me to drive again.  Tonight she was ready for me to take her to the bar and back and I told her I wouldn't driver her anywhere again until she's ready to apologize.

 

Curious....did she apologize?   

[BMaston12]

How do you handle criticism? Some things are just rude and can't be taken back 

Keep a smile. Be tactful in your reply to what you did. Sometimes you can learn from others about your weaknesses. Be open. BMaston12

[batmobile]

Thanks for the replies guys! now here's another question ...what if it was a spouse or family member

[renee10]

Constructive criticism is okay because it can be helpful but when it becomes nasty I try to bite my tongue and walk away.

[vickysue]

I have a sister, that does not criticize me but she lies, does not tell the whole truth, anything to make her look like the only ones does or cares about my dad. the sad thing is she lives in Alaska and only comes down for a week once in a while. And totally destroys all who get in her way. This week is the turning point in my life. I love her but do not like her and I really do not care if she ever comes back.  After years of her crap I will not put up with it anymore and if my dad (step) dose not keep condoning her actions I  will do a little as much for him. I have spent the last 7 years since moving back doing  nothing but running for him while she gets the credit because she is her once in a while. I just do not need it.

[ricdsm]

Sometimes the criticisms is valid and could actually help me improve.  I try hard to hear the criticism and see if I can take anything positive from it.

[sherryfan]

keep quiet, the more you say, the worst will occurs.