How do you know ??

[ericamoore58]

Depressing topic ... How do you know if your truly unhappy..in a relationship...a lifestyle..a path you are on... How do you know .. and how do you break a persons heart without meaning to let them down hard... how is the best way to walk away after four years...

[samrhett2]

I am so sorry for what you are going through, but it sounds like you already know and just are dreading what needs to be done.  I would find some quiet time and take a walk or go to a park.  Sit quietly and listen to your heart and then do whatever it tells you to do.  Best of luck.

[ericamoore58]

I think you are right...its just easier to be hurt yourself then hurt someone else...who knows I have tried your suggestions they all lead me in the same direction ... thanks for the tips ... 

[engler710]

You know you are unhappy when you are just sad all the time..The little things that use to excite you and make you smile are no longer there..You can't make everyone happy..and you you can't make yourself happy, then really you cannot make someone else happy.. Don't stay with someone just because you don't want to hurt them..I have been there.. Less time but a 9 month relationship..He said he wanted to break it off for a while, but I would keep buying him stuff..Birthdays, Christmas, just because.. Well that hurt even worse..Knowing he really didn't want to stay with me but didn't want to break it off and and hurt me after I spend money on him..There could be someone else out there that will make you happy and you may miss your chance because you are afraid to hurt someone instead of putting yourself first..We are always going to hurt someone..Start with making yourself happy. That is really most important..It is never easy to break off a relationship..I wish you the best of luck and hope you find the right path.

[ericamoore58]

Well thank you for the advice ... I did look youup on FB hope u dont mind !