I Hate Other People's Kids

[cubarican210]

I love kids. I definitely can't wait to have at least one of my own.

[BizELady]

I have an innate love for children (related or not).  But I dislike it when children are unappreciative, lack manners or just loud and rowdy.

[gaylasue]

It's easy to dislike (but never hate) unruley children.

[evilpixiemagic]

i just dont like the ones who act wild and thier parents pay no mind to it 

[Annella]

We have more than one generation of kids that have no respect or manners for anyone. Is it their fault?  No!  It's the parents fault. Today we have parents that are mostly kids themselves, and have no idea how to raise kids, and they are too lazy to correct them when they need it. Probably because they were not corrected when they were raised either. They were raised mostly by TV. It's a cycle that keeps repeating itself and will.............

I'm in a position where children are in my home many times. I have no problem correcting them. A child that comes into my home and "trashes" my house will get a reprimand from me if their parents do not take control. If your children hear you cus out the store clerk, strangers who pull out in front of you, someone who doesn't give you the best service, don't be surprised if they mirror you. Fathers and mothers who don't respect each other and fight and cus each other out, don't be surprised if your children learn the same.

When spanking and real discipline went out the window, so did respect and manners. Children need boundaries and actually want them. A child left to themselves is trouble waiting to happen. Many people worry about our economy and how everything is eroding. However, we are raising children who think that they are owed a living without work. No values, virtues, or ethics have been instilled into them, and then we wonder why the kids have turned out so bad.

I was strict with my son. I told him if he always told me the truth, and was sorry for what he had done, there was no punishment. However, if I caught him in a lie about anything he did, the punishment was severe. He was taught respect for those older, and especially respect for women. If he had a smart mouth, there was consequences. I spanked him when Dr. Spoc was telling everyone not to. He has grown to be a fine father and husband, respected in his career, and liked by everyone. He raises his sons the same way. I'm proud of him.

You don't have to be the perfect parents, but some things must be instilled into children to help them in their future life. If not, then we all suffer with future generations with no respect, values, or manners.

[thetop31]

I just don't like baby cry and kids who are so naughty and don't listen and make noise in public, IMpolite, RUde....bad!
cos FROM those kids, I can't see the future and I hate those, I even hope those People died quickly. they are the ones RUINING the world.

[denaPC2011]

no its not horrible i feel the same way

[healthfreedom]

How can you hate any kids? Kids are very special beings that can actually fill you with joy, if you appreciate who they are.

[Annella]

How can you hate any kids? Kids are very special beings that can actually fill you with joy, if you appreciate who they are.

Really?  When I'm at the community mailbox and some little kid (not yet 3), is riding their tricycle in the road, screaming at the top of their lungs at me "f___ y__", does not invoke fuzzy feelings. While I realize children learn what they are taught, I couldn't help but want to get away from the screaming brat as fast as possible.

Yes, some children can be a joy to be around. However, that number is substantially shrinking.

[JuletLindo]

There's usually a lot of reasons to hate. It isn't unnatural to dislike some children - sometimes there are many reasons! However, the feeling of hate is one I..well...hate! Especially for children. I can't dislike kids, they're far too innocent. Their behavior reflects what we've fed them, so how can we hate them? If anything, I'd understand if someone disliked the parents for raising them in such a manner.

I don't know if you meant to use that word though. Hate is a strong emotion...And to feel it towards a child is...Well, something that I don't see as being common. Maybe it is, though. I guess I just don't understand it.

[shernajwine]

There's usually a lot of reasons to hate. It isn't unnatural to dislike some children - sometimes there are many reasons! However, the feeling of hate is one I..well...hate! Especially for children. I can't dislike kids, they're far too innocent. Their behavior reflects what we've fed them, so how can we hate them? If anything, I'd understand if someone disliked the parents for raising them in such a manner.

I don't know if you meant to use that word though. Hate is a strong emotion...And to feel it towards a child is...Well, something that I don't see as being common. Maybe it is, though. I guess I just don't understand it.

For me, literal hate is not really how I feel. But a strong dislike for sure. When I'm babysitting and I'm losing my last bit of sanity and I LITERALLY want to run to the nearest highway and throw myself in front of heavy traffic to end it all. Hate is how I feel at that moment. But I don't really hate them, I just hate being around them.

[Annella]

Well I'm one of those parents - I had my son when I was 18 and I'm not going to lie, looking back I was not ready, but I didn't see abortion as an option, that's not something I could do and adoption - I love my son so much, I'm glad I didn't do that either.  He made me grow up fast, and I've learned a lot and I'm ALWAYS trying to improve myself everyday in regards to parenting skills, as well as other areas of life.  But I do agree, some young parents arn't good parents but they don't try to improve.  I feel like I'm a good Mom, and I'm doing my best.

I was 17 carrying my son and had him 2 weeks after turning 18, so you are singing to the choir hon....lol  I had to grow up fast too, and it wasn't easy. I became a single mom after 2 years. Being a single mom is the hardest job in the world. There are a lot of instruction manuals out there how to raise kids. However, there is no cookie cutter way for each child. Every child is different with different personalities.

Your doing just fine. Kids are pretty resilient. You are probably a better mom than you think you are. We all are the hardest on ourselves when it come to the parenting department. Making mistakes teaches us what to do/what not to do in the future. Make sure to take some time for yourself also.

[tantricia44]

broke 2 of my sons toys, a race car he just got for Christmas and his playstation - and when I told his mom she blammed it on his ADHD and said it was normal - if that's normal behavior I don't want the kid in my house.  I never offer for him to come over, she always just asks -I feel like she just pawns him off on me.

ADHD is not normal, it's a psychological, mental, neurological, metal motor skills defect. The signals that need to go to the brain to do the proper actions is not going to the right areas to achieve the tasks. These kids are usually unfocused, can't sit still more then few seconds sometimes can be very aggressive with other kids. Don't blame the kid, blame the mom. There some cases where kids develop ADHD or lack social coping skills because the parents didn't show enough attention to the child during the critical time after birth. In which they should have bonded with the parents. If she's pawning your nephew off at you at every given chance. Don't you think the kid instinctively knows that he's not wanted?

[angie828]

No I do not.  I just thinks sometimes why do they let their kids act that way?  I would never let my kids do that.

[Neyonce]

I don't think its horrible. I feel the same way sometimes. Well I wouldn't say hate I'll just say strongly dislike. There are certain things that other people kids do that can really tick you off. But you can't do anything about it. It also seems to me that nobody's kids act like your own so you may notice the demon kids a little better than their own parents.