I'm so sad today

[tigerlilly01]

My heart aches and I am very sad today .... life is very hard sometimes.  I wish that I could stop feeling like I just want to cry but I can't so I think I will just have a pity party for me myself and I .... the only ones who care. 

[patycake56]

sounds like you ar depressed you need to talk to a doctor

[cloudsoup]

it doesn't happen very often, but once in awhile
i get the urge to just cry. usually it's over a combination
of things that have been building up, including the loss
of a loved one. a long, exhausting cry is sometimes good
for the soul. i feel so much better after i finally get it all
out...  holding it all back is a battle within itself.

[debidoo]

I am so sorry you are sad today.  I completely understand.  My mom died on 5/20/11 and I miss her very much.  Sometimes I am sad and feel like I wasted so much time I could have had with her but I know its normal to have periods when your parent is not the most important thing or should be put ahead of anyone else.  None-the-less I miss her.  It makes me feel better to pray and to think about the positive things in my life, like my two sons who I am very close to.  If you are not religiously inclined maybe you should think about counseling or just trying to get your mind off your sadness.  I hope this post isn't taken like I don't understand sometimes we are sad and just can't escape it because it is so overwhelmingly present in our day or our life. I hope things get better for you!

[golotomer]

I'm sorry you are so sad tigerlily.  Here is a hug.  I hope you feel better soon.   

[gaylasue]

I am so sorry you are sad today.  Try to think of happy things and times!  Go out and do something special for yourself today!  I hope your day gets brighter as each minute goes by.  Life is too short to spend it sad.

[SmartyTru]

Just read your post hopefully today you are better but if not there are many ways to cure the blues including such simple things as eating chocolate and breathing exercises.

[swv]

I am sorry you are sad. Hope today is better for you!!!

[poppy1]

Just know that many do care. And you are not the only one that go through these sad times. Keep your chin up and always know that this too shall pass....Stay positive!

[kay7]

We all have days like that and they are difficult to get over but the best way is to get busy and not think about how depressed you are.  That could be working around the house, getting out and getting some exercise and fresh air, doing something for others and the ever-popular and already mentioned CHOCOLATE 

[MollyAlice1]

just feel better sweetie...

[drandall]

Just know that many do care. And you are not the only one that go through these sad times. Keep your chin up and always know that this too shall pass....Stay positive!

Tigerlilly, this is soooo true. We all go through this at one time or another in our lives. You are not alone. You even have us on here who care and can relate. Compared to a lot out there I don't have the worst life and I feel I am truely blessed, but there are times that it just does not seem as green on my side fence. And I know better, but can't stop those pesky feelings sometimes.

[lynnc35]

I dont' think you need to talk to a doctor, a quack, that would take your money, then you would have no money and be sad, what I find helps me is to start to think of the things you do have right now, that you are grateful for, like possibly people that are in your life, they could be gone tomorrow, what about the air we breathe, the food we eat, it is bad to be hungry and thirsty and have nothing, sometimes it takes not having essential things, to wake us up to the things we don't have, being human we tend to focus on the things we lose and things we are without, it is the devils distraction, my name for it, to take us away from all the good stuff, if he can get us distracted on one thing, he can divert us from all the good things around us and keep us miserable.

[macy332]

My heart aches and I am very sad today .... life is very hard sometimes.  I wish that I could stop feeling like I just want to cry but I can't so I think I will just have a pity party for me myself and I .... the only ones who care. 

tigerlily01 i understand how it feels to feel like crying your eyes out. luckily i'm not depressed at this time, but there was a day when i should have pursued professional help. i made it through the situation. being depressed or extremely sad is something that most people don't understand. because they have unconditional support from family. those days are over for me. if that is the case for you, i think you should find someone that can help. don't get hooked on drugs, but they can lift you out of your current situation until you can stand on both feet. find something in life that gets you focused in a positive path.

[tigerlilly01]

thank you for all the positive words of encouragement.  I have had a tough life and thought I finally got it right but ...why do people have to be so unkind and only love you if you do exactly what they want you to do.... that really isn't love.