My Twenty Year Old Daughter Not Happy With Me!

[hensleyll]

I Thank everyone else for the advice and i do try to stay calm and receptive if i feel i cant i just walk away

[gaylasue]

That is the way with most young adults.  They want their independence but they want you there to pick them up when the fall down.  It's hard to differentiate when they are wanting help or just wanting sympathy. I have learned the hard way to be patient and when my opinion is wanted, it will be requested.  Fortunately, I don't have grandkids that I have to worry about.

[hensleyll]

Well I`m Trying the tough love ,but i cave alot! I have spoiled them terrible gues most of their problems of being on their own is my fault

[vmcutshall]

I have had that experience also but I have to go further because my daughter and her twins live with me. She has to listen to what I tell her and she has admitted that sometimes mom knows best, partly because I have a degree in early childhood.

[hensleyll]

Well Mine Decided That She Would Be Happier At Her Grandmothers She Took Her Daughter And Moved With My Mom