Sex Is Not Suppose To Be A Chore In A Marriage

[lindatucker]

 :'(Sex is not suppose to be a chore in a marriage it is something that is to suppose to romantically happen.

[calicapesu]

True, if sex become something like a chore when you're married then that means you should end the relationship. Why bother continuing, no one likes doing chores (there are a few exceptions though) so why doing something you don't love.

[dreamyxo]

True, if sex become something like a chore when you're married then that means you should end the relationship. Why bother continuing, no one likes doing chores (there are a few exceptions though) so why doing something you don't love.

Sex is not the end all be all of life or marriage.  That's like saying I don't want to clean my house (another chore) so I'm just going to move to a new house.  This doesn't solve any problems.  You'll move from house to house every time it gets dirty just because you don't want to deal with it.  Not only are you running away from the real problem but it will cost you a lot more in the long run.  Sometimes you have to suck it up and do things you don't always want to do. 

[mardukblood2009]

If it is a choir now, it probably always was, you just didn't know it. Sex is the whole point of marriage. I know alot of dummies don't want to think that but it is. If you are not able to make it in the bedroom, you sure as heck, are not going to make it out of it. It's common sense.  Make sure you know your partner VERY WELL  before you marry them.

[tjung10]

If it is a chore, I will try to do my chores at least 3 or 4 times a week!! 

[kingozzy]

Sometimes people just lose the fire that keeps the relationship going, and sex is the first thing to go

[dreamyxo]

Sex is the whole point of marriage.

I completely disagree with this.  I'm not married but if I ever did for me personally sex would not even be one of the top 10 reasons.  However if you really break it down you could say sex is the only point of anything in this world.  If you think about it sex rules everything around us, music, movies, fashion.  If it weren't for sex none of us would be here.  I personally don't care for it so it's not important in my life.   

[workmama]

If it is a chore, I will try to do my chores at least 3 or 4 times a week!! 

LOL!! You are so funny and wise! 

[dmathiss]

Sex is not suppose to be a chore in marriage. It is supposed to be something wonderful between two people that love each other. That is one of the most important ways a couple shows their love for each other. As soon as you think it is becoming a chore and not something you are enjoying you are supposed to look for ways to make it enjoyable for you and your spouse.

Kingozzy, I agree with you that sometimes people just lose the fire and that sex is the first thing to go but there are ways to get that fire going again. A nice dinner, a movie, taking walks together and just enjoying time together. Like me and my husband make one day a week date night (sometimes it last all weekend  )and we do things we enjoy doing together and that keeps our relationship strong and the fire and excitement in our marriage.

[los5208]

Not at all! Sex is the ultimate act and it should be the most enojoyable and intense between partners as it can be. No Forcing is All Giving.

[froggylover227]

Would you please call up my husband and tell him this??? He seems to think sex is for makin' babies only, and I believe it to be the oppossite. Ugh! It's good to know that I'm not the only one who thinks this!

[cloudsoup]

Would you please call up my husband and tell him this??? He seems to think sex is for makin' babies only, and I believe it to be the oppossite. Ugh! It's good to know that I'm not the only one who thinks this!

he thinks what? with all due
respect, i've never heard such a thing! LOL.
have you tried changing his mind on that one?


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Sex is not the end all be all of life or marriage [. . . . ] Sometimes you have to suck it up and do things you don't always want to do. 

i agree. after a long day at work, i'm tired,
hungry, and probably a little cranky. it's not exactly
the first thing on my mind, but putting the other person
first is why relationships work when it happens mutually.

...and honestly, after all is said and done, i couldn't say
that i would have rather spent the evening on the couch

[MessiahMews]

If it is a chore, I will try to do my chores at least 3 or 4 times a week!! 

LOL!! You are so funny and wise! 

LOL!

Menopause is the biggest sex killer of most women.  Once the change comes, they're like done with it all.

[Graeth]

Its not supposed to be a chore. Nor is it a duty, or a weapon to be wielded
It should only be a means of communication.
Two people to express their care for one another.

[ariet09]

lmao i agree