IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER
- by Erma Bombeck
(written after she found out she was dying
from cancer).
I would have gone to bed when I was sick
instead of pretending the earth would go into
a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted
like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner
even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa
faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good'
living room and worried much less about the
dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in
the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my
grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would have shared more of the responsibility
carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows
be rolled up on a summer day because my hair
had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my grass
stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while
watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just
because it was practical, wouldn't show soil,
or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of
pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment
and realized that the wonderment growing
inside me was the only chance in life to assist
God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would
never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up
for dinner." There would have been more
"I love you's" More "I'm sorry's."
But mostly, given another shot at life, I would
seize every minute...look at it and really see it...
live it and never give it back.
STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!!
Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who
has more, or who's doing what
Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have
with those who do love us.
Let's think about what God HAS blessed us with,
and what we are doing each day to promote
ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally.
I hope you have a blessed day.