What do you think about wearing a white wedding gown if its your 2nd marriage?

[StacyDevinAaron]

i always thought white was for virgins too not if u had never been married b4... its your special day i would personally wear it people arent that traditional anymore anyways....

[kristysaiko]

Wearing white wedding dresses didn't even begin until the mid 1900s. Before that, women wore whatever color they felt like wearing.

[Glenda782]

White is always good but like the others wear what you want and what makes you feel good.

[kmhoehl]

definitely do what you want. its your big day. make it something that you wont look back and regret.

[anylit]

I'm not sure too many people follow the "white dress = virgin" rule even for their first weddings nowadays, so don't be shy - wear what you like!

[kcbusymom]

In this day and age, if you only wore white when you are a virgin, not very many brides would be in white! With that aside, I think you should wear what you want. There are so many beautiful wedding dresses that you can find what you like regardless of the color.

[hart4animals]

I am wondering if you should wear a white gown on your second marriage or an off color? So many people seem to criticizes brides when they wear all white and have been married once before. Heck, I thought that wearing white meant you wear a virgin. 

I've always like the white dresses with a different color accent for 2nd marriages. Such as a red bow on it or something. They look classy, elegant and you still get to wear white. But I think te bride should wear what she wants. It's her day. Forget what people think! 

[babysgtmick]

I agree with most of the members.  Wear whatever you want.  It's your day and you should be happy and feel as beautiful as possible!  Good luck and best wishes!

[mc1962]

MARRIAGE IS VERY MUCH A FRAME OF MIND, ALSO A NEW BEGGINING FOR PEOPLE........IF THE BRIDE SEES FIT TO WEAR WHITE THEN MORE POWER TO HER AND THE PEOPLE THAT DO NOT SEE IT THAT WAY ARE HIDING DIRTY SECRETS THEMSELVES. 

[coolchickq33]

express yourself and if that's in a white wedding gown go for it!

[crushcomments]

traditional 1 time wear white

then you could wear a light cream that almost looks like white

[AmyTrivitt]

I say wear what you want. Who cares if this is your second. I wore a black with red trim around the bottom arms and neck for my wedding only because I liked the dress more than anything. I dont think it matters what you wear as long as you personally like it.

[chrissy444]

i am not very traditional or religious, so the "big" wedding I don't really care about.  I just got married at my house by a minister who practiced buddhism, with just a few close friends and family.  I think it's kind of weird that people go into debt to have a huge party?  But if you got the money go for it. It's not like this day and age most of the people are virgins any ways when they get married? So why would it matter what color your dress is? I'm sure there are plenty of times were people do it all over again, when they re-new their vows, and they probably end up wearing white.  I'm sure there are different "society rules" for what ever circle you run in, so if it matters to you what others think, and you don't want to be the topic of conversation for a month, then just ask around with the people you hang out with.

[Bigzmatt]

 

[davidf938]

Marriage is nothing but a ceremony. It does not change how you feel about your partner. If you choose to go through the trouble and expense of a formal wedding, wear what you want. Eat what you want Have it where-ever you want. It is YOUR wedding.