husands ex and mother living together....?

[cowgirlx]

Who out there thinks it is normal for somones mom to be living with his ex gf? they've been split up for over 4 years....

[jester2dr]

I know it must seem weird to you, but they probably established a relationship outside the one between the ex and your BF/Hubby...

just because his ex and him didnt get along, doesn mean that "mom" has to break off the relationship too.....   

[cowgirlx]

Totally appreciate your insight, but it is really creepy... She does it because she believes that he will eventually go  back to her.  Oh and did I mention that they share  bed.  Sorry, but that is just wierd.  They both hate me with a passion. LOL like I care .  I wouldn't be surprised if it happened... I just think the other situation is too wierd.

[SoontobeLane36]

Man that is weird! Sounds like they came from the (please don't hate me for this) freek zone. That is just too crazy! I don't understand that at all.

[cowgirlx]

Man that is weird! Sounds like they came from the (please don't hate me for this) freek zone. That is just too crazy! I don't understand that at all.

truer words were never spoken sister...  I'm not offended.  They are two of the biggest idiots that I have ever had the displeasure to deal with.  (couldn't hate you any ways you are jesters g/f so you have to have the coolness factor going on) 

[SoontobeLane36]

Thank you very much....I like you too. You know, I thought my ex and his family was weird until I read your post. Those two top my ex's family....but not by much. LOL 

[gayecat]

It's actually more important to find out what he thinks about it.  Does he get along with his mom?  If not what'syour problem?

[cowgirlx]

It's actually more important to find out what he thinks about it.  Does he get along with his mom?  If not what'syour problem?

Lets see..... Well, now that she lives with his ex, she butts into everything that goes on.  From when he gives the child support, how much, when he gets to see his kids, how long he gets to see them.  We have custiody of one, and she gets mad when we get his hair cut w/out telling her.  She is a totaly control freak ( make that a frak in general), and like soontbe said it is just freaky.

[jester2dr]

i have an even weirder question to ask..... dont take this the wrong way....

could they now be a couple? 

stranger things have happened...... 

[cowgirlx]

i have an even weirder question to ask..... dont take this the wrong way....

could they now be a couple? 

stranger things have happened...... 

That is a very good ?   but to be quite honest don't think so.  They are too busy plotting on how to get him away from me.  I don't know though.  I think that they are just two co-dependent, "user friendly", morons, who are stuck in the past.

[SoontobeLane36]

It's actually more important to find out what he thinks about it.  Does he get along with his mom?  If not what'syour problem?

Lets see..... Well, now that she lives with his ex, she butts into everything that goes on.  From when he gives the child support, how much, when he gets to see his kids, how long he gets to see them.  We have custiody of one, and she gets mad when we get his hair cut w/out telling her.  She is a totaly control freak ( make that a frak in general), and like soontbe said it is just freaky.

Do they not have a parenting plan that states when he is to give her child support, see his child, ext.? Now is it the one you and your husband has custody of that she gets mad when you get his hair cut? If so, it's none of her business any more and she has not right to do that.

[MikaylasMama73]

yeah... thats kinda strange

[cowgirlx]

It's actually more important to find out what he thinks about it.  Does he get along with his mom?  If not what'syour problem?

Lets see..... Well, now that she lives with his ex, she butts into everything that goes on.  From when he gives the child support, how much, when he gets to see his kids, how long he gets to see them.  We have custiody of one, and she gets mad when we get his hair cut w/out telling her.  She is a totaly control freak ( make that a frak in general), and like soontbe said it is just freaky.

Do they not have a parenting plan that states when he is to give her child support, see his child, ext.? Now is it the one you and your husband has custody of that she gets mad when you get his hair cut? If so, it's none of her business any more and she has not right to do that.

Yup to every question... she just thinks that he should give his ex more money for support, and should hand over money whenever they (his ex and his mom) want something.  She has to be in control of anything and everything.  That is why she hates me.  She has literally gotten into my face before, in my house, because I wouldn't give her what she wanted while he was at work.  How childish is that?

[carolinaqt782]

hmm, that does sound a little out there, but we don't really know what their relationship is like...and was like before the former couple started dating.

[ODOMS6598]

i kinda have a similiar situtaion  my ex and my brother were best friends growing up and now since i have remarried my brother wont have anything to do with my new husband.  my brother and ex hang out, have family bbqs, their new wives are best friends.  it just hurts my feelings that he would rather still be friends with someone who done me wrong.(cheated on me for 3 yrs before i found out, left me with no money and tried to take my house and we had two smaill boys at the time 4& 11 months.)(( since then we lost one son to a car accident ))