I think that being frugal is in the eyes of the beholder. My wife does an excellent job of maintaining our expenses. Some people would see a few of our expenses as unnecessary such as private high school for my son, over a thousand dollars a month on the wife's/kid's sports, soon-to-be college tuition at the best colleges in the country. Education and sports are where our family priorities lie and we hope that our children won't have to work as hard as we do...that they won't face layoffs...that they will be well connected. I go a little far with frugal. I have been in the same pair of boots for three years, same jeans for two years, same shirts for five years, spend less than a dollar fifty on lunch and work eighteen hours a day.