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anotherlaujgirl

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I went on my first date last night..
« on: September 01, 2014, 09:35:59 am »
It's was a very different scenario for me. He asked my mom for permission since my parents are very traditional Hmong parents. My dad did not really approve when I had told him, but my sister couldn't tell if he said in Hmong "No" or "whooa"
so to be safe when he asked my mom we ended the night early.

But for starters he spent the whole day with my family because we had a BBQ. At first I was teasing him about coming because I always do.. but then all my older siblings invited him. LOL so he came and was awkward for a very long time. Then he went home and picked me up later for a movie date.

He's not my boyfriend, but.... He paid for me. :D my last boyfriend didn't even pay for me and it was matinee. I'm not saying i'm relying on him to pay, but as new as this unofficial boyfriend of mine is to the concept of a relationship, he was off to a good start. He was really nervous and honest about how he was feeling.

To be honest I was nervous at first, until i realized how nervous he was, and I found it really cute so I got comfortable. LOL :) Tried to make it comfortable for him as well. LOL We watched If I Stay.. But half way in i realized.. Too many kissing scenes!  I FREAKED OUT.

But then at the end we laughed it off and he sent me home because my early curfew was nearing, and I didn't actually have my dad's permission. But all in all, this was my first official date. It was different, but nice.
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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #1 on: September 02, 2014, 10:23:10 pm »
that is great it is always awkward on your first date how old are you

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #2 on: September 03, 2014, 12:46:00 am »
It sounds like a positive experience and the guy was a gentleman.  Hopefully, your parents are at peace with you spending time with him.

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Have a great day!

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #3 on: September 03, 2014, 04:06:00 am »
It sounds like it went well. I agree with sherryinutah, I hope your parents are at peace with the two of you spending time together.

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #4 on: September 03, 2014, 07:00:58 am »
What a wonderful story. I wish the best of luck in the future for you and your other.

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #5 on: September 03, 2014, 08:10:39 am »
He seems to care what your family thinks of him, which is a good thing. And I think if your father disapproved, he would have told you at the BBQ. Best of luck in this new relationship - he sounds sweet!

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #6 on: September 03, 2014, 08:38:23 am »
kudos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #7 on: September 03, 2014, 11:24:25 am »
First dates are always awkward. lol It's good that he was respectful and met your parents. My advice to you, and I'm sure you already know, take it sloooww!!! lol Good luck!

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #8 on: September 03, 2014, 11:30:31 am »
What a wonderful experience.  There is no hurry, enjoy your new relationship and take it slow.  I wish you all the best.
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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #9 on: September 03, 2014, 12:27:10 pm »
Sounds very promising :)  Good luck to the both of you!

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #10 on: September 03, 2014, 08:40:55 pm »
that is great it is always awkward on your first date how old are you

I'm 19. It was different because i have never gone on a date in my previous relationships.

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« Reply #11 on: September 03, 2014, 08:41:58 pm »
Thanks everyone! :D

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #12 on: September 03, 2014, 08:45:30 pm »
It sounds like a positive experience and the guy was a gentleman.  Hopefully, your parents are at peace with you spending time with him.

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Thanks! I wish they were too, but as of now.. not really.

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #13 on: September 03, 2014, 09:21:04 pm »
Sounds like it was a nice first date. Like others have said, first dates can be awkward. This guy sounds like a gentleman, very traditional.

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Re: I went on my first date last night..
« Reply #14 on: September 04, 2014, 03:51:33 am »
It sounds like this will be a nice relationship. Keep it fun and enjoy it. He sounds like a nice guy. Your family might know more about it than you think if he was at a family BBQ.

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