now I'm not so sure. I'm wondering if it was all a charade - I know he wanted to marry me really badly and he was always afraid of losing me. Not that he did it intentionally, I think he may have even fooled himself. It's a long story, a LOT of background details, but now he doesn't even open his bible and he says he gets irritated because all I ever want to talk about is God. He also loves the things of this world and thinks I'm being dramatic when I change certain things because I have been convicted / decided that those things are sin in God's eyes. For example, there's this show I used to watch, Tosh.0, and in the show the guy makes light of homosexuality, abortions, Jesus, etc. (it's a comedy show) and I don't think God would appreciate me watching and laughing at those shows.
I just feel like I should stop talking about God to him so he doesn't get upset, even though he told me to keep talking about God because he probably needs to hear it. But I don't know if that's a good idea (to stop talking about it) because I don't want it to negatively affect our marriage. BUT maybe if I had another person I could call and talk to about the Lord, that would help.
Anyway, is there anyone out there married to an unbeliever that has any tips for me? Am I wrongly evaluating the situation and maybe he IS saved but just not strong in his faith?