What Should I Do? (Girlfriend Problems)

[flotowngolfer]

I've been with my gf for over16 months and everthing looks fine on the outside, but we fight constantly and have completely different goals and morals. Can anyone offer advice? I do still love her, btw.

[nirragnik]

Honestly man. I would suggest first off, to talk it over with her. My girlfriend is very self centered, concieted, cocky. ALL THE ABOVE. She even admits it. But what we do is understand each other. And if we don't like an opinion we change the both of ours. That way no one wins. We been happily together for almost two years. And getting married next year around this time. But not to nit-pick. I wouldn't trust anyones advice over the internet. For all you know I could be a 12 year old acting like a 22 year old

[flotowngolfer]

Thanks. And I agree with your advice about not accepting advice, but I'm getting pretty desperate, and you don't write like you're twelve. Thanks though.

[nirragnik]

Haha good, anytime man.

[AmyTrivitt]

I've been with my gf for over16 months and everthing looks fine on the outside, but we fight constantly and have completely different goals and morals. Can anyone offer advice? I do still love her, btw.

First off, im sorry! Some times relationships are not meant to be. BUT the best relationship is the one worth fighting and working for. But you both have to be willing to work for the relationship to last. Im sorry I cannot give you any good advice. It seems though that you do really love her just in your above question. Some men wouldnt even ask. KUDOS

[kelann1027]

well i thought everything was fine with my ex but was i so wrong..he cheated on me left us and moved out/ in with her..on top of it im having his baby in 11 days..so just follow ur heart..it never lies!!

[nirragnik]

well i thought everything was fine with my ex but was i so wrong..he cheated on me left us and moved out/ in with her..on top of it im having his baby in 11 days..so just follow ur heart..it never lies!!

Ouch. What idiotic guys in this world. Too bad Im not one :p not to be concieted or anything. But I slept with this really enormous girl one nite when i was blacked out on everclear. Ugly as all can be. And I stayed right by her side until the day she gave birth. Now we ain't on good speaking terms but she is jealous of my current girlfriend. Some men can be complete a holes at times. But all in all we ain't that bad