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Skyisbluetoday

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #15 on: May 13, 2018, 05:52:30 am »
:fish: :moon: :fish: A lot of woman in this world that don't give birth. Some reason's could be emotional for some woman. While others just don't want them.  :fish: :moon: :fish:
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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #16 on: May 13, 2018, 06:45:18 am »
I have a couple friends who have no kids for one reason or other and a very happy.

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #17 on: May 13, 2018, 08:31:38 am »
I've never wanted kids, for no particular reason. I've just never had the motherly instinct, I guess. Plenty of people have told me how much I'm missing out, how I'll change my mind as I get older, etc. But I'm 40 now and I'm just fine without them, no regrets. Although I do have adult step-kids. I love them and they are my family, but I don't consider them MY kids.

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #18 on: May 13, 2018, 08:12:25 pm »
I've never wanted kids, for no particular reason. I've just never had the motherly instinct, I guess. Plenty of people have told me how much I'm missing out, how I'll change my mind as I get older, etc. But I'm 40 now and I'm just fine without them, no regrets. Although I do have adult step-kids. I love them and they are my family, but I don't consider them MY kids.
There's nothing wrong with that, I agree. :)
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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #19 on: May 14, 2018, 03:00:43 am »
It's an interesting question with many reasons associated with it, just as the reasons for having children are numerous too. I've chosen not to have children at this juncture because I want to focus on my career and like to have a flexible schedule. I think there used to be more stigma associated with the idea of not having children, but more and more people seem to see it as a perfectly good alternative, which pleases me greatly.

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #20 on: May 14, 2018, 03:30:13 am »
I have a friend who never found the right one to settle down with She is now 47 and has given up completely on marriage and children. :(

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #21 on: May 14, 2018, 07:23:34 am »
i have 2 male friends that have decided not to have kids. they are both in commeted relationships and feel as though bringing kids in to the world woud not be fair to teh children.

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #22 on: May 27, 2018, 09:17:44 pm »
I love children and like playing with them and having them around but, I knew very early on children were not something I wanted personally.  This was my life choice.   :female: :female: :female: :female:

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #23 on: May 27, 2018, 09:34:41 pm »
I love children and like playing with them and having them around but, I knew very early on children were not something I wanted personally.  This was my life choice.   :female: :female: :female: :female:

I understand. Parenting is not for everyone.  :)  :rose:
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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #24 on: May 27, 2018, 10:53:41 pm »
If it is the will of God then children will be in the midst. 

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #25 on: May 29, 2018, 01:32:33 pm »
Women aren't incubators.  None of us are obligated to have children, just because we're women. 

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #26 on: May 29, 2018, 09:17:31 pm »
I am 15 weeks pregnant with my first. My husband is almost 35 and I am 29. We had been trying for awhile with no luck so I always thought in the back of my mind that I may not be able to have kids. Feel very blessed.

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #27 on: May 29, 2018, 09:19:50 pm »
I am 15 weeks pregnant with my first. My husband is almost 35 and I am 29. We had been trying for awhile with no luck so I always thought in the back of my mind that I may not be able to have kids. Feel very blessed.
Congratulations to your pregnancy! God bless you and your husband
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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #28 on: May 30, 2018, 05:32:55 am »
I'm childless, but I'm also not in a relationship, so that's most of the reason for it.  Until I actually find someone, I don't really feel like I need to have a child.

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Re: Women who have never had children and why..
« Reply #29 on: May 30, 2018, 09:33:23 am »
I have a friend who never found the right one to settle down with She is now 47 and has given up completely on marriage and children. :(
Yeah sometimes that happens when you're trying to do things the appropriate way instead of having a child out of wedlock. It's life
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