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countrygirl12

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Re: Does it bother you...
« Reply #15 on: September 01, 2018, 10:33:17 am »
Just curious but does it bother you when someone doesn't like you and makes it clear they do not like you and they have absolutely no reason at all to not like you.

I know people are judgmental.  They judge others on their appearance (which people cannot always help), or on something the person MAY have done in the past (just because you hear something doesn't mean it is true), or for something that did happen in the past years ago. 

If you were in a situation where a new co-worker or someone you go to church with or whatever - if they make it clear they do not like you would you want to know why?

Hello!

I would like to say that it doesn't bother me but it does. I know I care way too much what people think about me even though I know I'm a good person. It all has to do with my low self-esteem!

I honestly do not care what they think about me. I just get tired of being slighted especially in the situation it is in.

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« Reply #16 on: September 01, 2018, 10:35:39 am »
I have had people in the past tell me or tell someone they don't like me. No reason and it did not bother me because I have always had a lot of friends and I just hang with the ones that do like me.

I remember years ago I had just started working on a new job and I went up at lunch and was talking to a couple people and the one woman flat out told me "I don't like you. You have not done anything to me but I don't like you"  Well b**tch go play in a free way somewhere. lol

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« Reply #17 on: September 01, 2018, 11:28:43 am »
When I was younger yes now that I am older no.  I figure to heck with them.  I am a solitary person for the most part now that my husband passed but if someone doesn't like me I figure why would I worry about them.

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« Reply #18 on: September 01, 2018, 01:04:14 pm »
People are always going to either like you or dislike you. Even in church where everyone is supposed to love everyone. Sometimes they're just jealous of you.  8) Sometimes they think you don't like them.  ::)

If you reach out to people, they will respond. If they keep responding negatively, know that it's not you and just chalk it up to life unfairness. If you're not that person's cup of tea, there are many, many other fish in the sea. And statistically speaking, it would be odd if there were no people that didn't like you. You know.

I like you, for what it's worth. Do faceless entities matter at all to you?  :dontknow:


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« Reply #19 on: September 01, 2018, 06:24:03 pm »
No, It doesn't bother me at all.  If they don't like me, it's their problem not mine.
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Re: Does it bother you...
« Reply #20 on: September 01, 2018, 07:00:12 pm »
The older I get, the less it matters whether someone likes me or not.  I'm old, and I'm tired.  I don't have time to worry about it.

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« Reply #21 on: September 01, 2018, 07:18:53 pm »
I believe if a person does not like someone, they may be jealous of them. Someone could have a nice car, clothes, good job, etc... there is something that the other person is jealous of. I do believe that there is a reason for everything. I would like to know the reason why, but chances are people won't be honest and say why they dislike someone.

So just know that someone is jealous of you!

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Re: Does it bother you...
« Reply #22 on: September 01, 2018, 11:49:15 pm »
I'm not a very trusting person, so i don't care what people think.

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« Reply #23 on: September 02, 2018, 02:29:31 am »
It used to bother me, but I guess as I have aged, it has occured me to me that people just suck and sometimes people don't like you because they are jealous! So, it doesn't bother me; you don't like me, well YOUR Loss.

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« Reply #24 on: September 02, 2018, 04:50:29 am »
  :bunny:  :cat:  :dog: Some people it does bother me. I wonder what I ever done to them, but being nice. I wait to see if they have a bad mood day, but some people just don't like me doesn't matter the mood or the day.  :bunny:  :cat:  :dog:
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« Reply #25 on: September 02, 2018, 07:27:41 am »
I have had people in the past tell me or tell someone they don't like me. No reason and it did not bother me because I have always had a lot of friends and I just hang with the ones that do like me.

I remember years ago I had just started working on a new job and I went up at lunch and was talking to a couple people and the one woman flat out told me "I don't like you. You have not done anything to me but I don't like you"  Well b**tch go play in a free way somewhere. lol

Now that situation is more telling about the person who would say such a thing to your face when they hardly knew you.  You have to wonder about a person like that.  I would steer clear as much as possible but not give them much "head space.'  However, on the other hand, I know that can be a bit difficult at first because most of us would try to decide what we did. I have learned not to let that bother me for long, but it has become possible since I have matured and got a better understanding of myself and others.

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Re: Does it bother you...
« Reply #26 on: September 02, 2018, 09:23:23 am »
It bothers me at first bc I always want to be liked but I can't do anything about it so I get over it easily
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« Reply #27 on: September 02, 2018, 09:27:36 am »
I have had some one that did not iike me and tried to get me in troube.  The ended up losing their home.  The Bible says "what you sew, you reap.  Never try to get someone in trouble because it will come back to you.  I have always treated other the way I want to be treated.

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Re: Does it bother you...
« Reply #28 on: September 02, 2018, 06:31:42 pm »
No it doesn't bother me because that means that they are really not friends or family.   As long as I am happy with myself that is all the counts

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Re: Does it bother you...
« Reply #29 on: September 03, 2018, 03:39:42 am »
Things like that use to both me but not anymore. The one thing that I really hate is when someone made it clear that they did not like you years ago and then you bump into them and they want to act like nothing happened. That really makes me mad. >:(

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