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snuggleycutejc

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Re: Dating a control freak
« Reply #30 on: January 15, 2019, 02:09:49 pm »
Maybe he is looking for someone that can brainwash him. Yup brainwashing is an art, than you will have a loyal lover.

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Re: Dating a control freak
« Reply #31 on: January 15, 2019, 06:26:48 pm »
Sounds like you two need to have a long talk (maybe he's having doubts too).

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Re: Dating a control freak
« Reply #32 on: January 16, 2019, 02:31:24 am »
Run and change your locks. You are heading into troubled waters with that one.

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Re: Dating a control freak
« Reply #33 on: January 30, 2019, 05:15:34 pm »
I would be running or send him/her running

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Re: Dating a control freak
« Reply #34 on: January 30, 2019, 05:56:35 pm »
Don't let him move in. Does he have a decent job? Don't settle- love yourself, stay positive and you will eventually meet someone with similar interests but let him stay where he is. Don't change for anyone.

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Re: Dating a control freak
« Reply #35 on: January 31, 2019, 12:23:11 am »
NO YOU have control, just LEAVE, geez ::) ::) ::) 8)

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Re: Dating a control freak
« Reply #36 on: February 01, 2019, 09:24:10 am »
Interesting replies. I don't think he'd ever hit me, but isn't that what they all say? I'd rather be alone than be with the wrong person too. Guess I have some thinking to do.

Yes, I think you do need to do some deep thinking about what you want and not what will make you happy necessarily, but what will give you peace of mind.  I believe your key words were you don't particularly like him.  This is so key. Sometimes we stay involved with someone because they meet some need we have but it's only a very partial picture. Look at the ther parts of the picture and read your post on here several times.  I think the answer to what you should do in this relationship is actually imbedded in your own post.

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