Is there Someone You are Trying to get back?

[vg7405]

No, but I do know of an ex-boyfriend who is trying to reconcile with me. It is very annoying.

[kimber62372]

Seems like most of my ex's die on me which is sad! But I always have a connection with them even after our break ups, never have regrets and always there as a friend if they need me or vice versa. I don't like to end a relationship on bad terms, just in case...lol, you never know! lol.. Go with your instincts, only YOU can lead yourself to happiness and in the right direction.

[Penwoir]

No way! Since I was young I have been in a relationship and my relationships have always been long ones! However, at the point of realization that a relationship wasn't working, I have ended it! More often I have continued to remain in the relationship just to give it every chance to work but once I've decided it's not working, that's it! Now on occasions I might wonder how an ex is, but I would never dream of making contact in any way because I can't see that it would end well. I say, let sleeping dogs lie!

[carolhall1031]

I always thought I wanted to "get back" at my second husband.  He was mentally abusive to me and my children.  He had it hid very well when I met him.  However now that I am older I realize it was a waste of time.

[JaniceSW]

You really have to examine your feelings and motives regarding why you want to get back with someone.  There can be many explanations, some healthy but often not so healthy.  Make sure it is not just to make yourself feel better for some reason at the other person's expense.

[sherryinutah]

No...I don't have an ex I want to get "back with" because I recognize that there's a life cycle to that type of relationship; a beginning, a middle and an end.

You, my friend, gave that girl the impression that you were done....

and now you're giving her the impression that you're confused about what and who you want.  Why would she want to deal with that kind of instability?

[BOSSLADYNELLY]

I broke up with my ex boyfriend because he lied about something's and i was planning on starting a family and getting married to him i changed my mind about about getting married when i met him i was so against marriage anyway i miss him but i can't forget that he lied to me but i was loyal to him i gave him my heart smfh

[bremer51]

There was once a boy that I loved and lost.  I tried to get him back, but it didn't work so I moved on.
Then he tried to get me back.  But it was too late.  Regrets?  Yes, I have a few.

[carmexqueen]

There used to be....years ago then I gave it up especially after he disrespected me by trying to fool around when he had a girlfriend and then this fool had her on speakerphone talking to her in my house the next morning. My thinking was if he will do it to her he could do it to me too. Love means nothing when you can find someone else to give it without worrying about what they're doing.

[reiddb]

In your case, I think you should just let her read what you just wrote.  We are sooooo afraid of getting hurt that we decide to put up those walls and you know what....nothing ventured, nothing gained...It sounds like she liked you a bunch too, give it a shot. Now her walls are up b/c you already caused her the pain you were seeking to protect yourself from. But, open up and let her know exactly what happened. If she really did feel for you what I think she did, if you just go for it, no reserves, let it go as it can. If you don't try, you will always regret it. And....if it doesn't work out, at least you tried and there are no regrets. Learn from it and try again. =)

[missplaymate618]

No there's really no one I want back, most of my ex's are married and I'm happy for them. And right now I am happy with the person I am with now.

[holmesch22]

no there is no one I am trying to get back at very happy with the person I have 

[mrisha]

Trying to hold on to something that was shoulda, coulda, woulda is wasted.   The past is gone and now you move on because that person has moved on.

[debidoo]

No its a long story but there is no hope for my situation.  I fell in love with someone who was married and didn't know they were so I ended the relationship.  Then I married and the first man sent my friend to my house to see if I would leave my husband and I said no.  I was married for 34 years then my husband passed away in 2013.  I looked up my old flame to see if he was on facebook and saw that he had become divorced but had since remarried so I guess it was never meant to be.    Good luck to you