SEX BEFORE MARRAIGE?? GOOD IDEA OR NOT?

[pat2010]

Good question, i say as long as both agree on it. I would have to try it before, buttttttttttt it could make you want it even more being that you didn't...

[Cuppycake]

well, i've been with 2 guys.. 2 guys that i thought i was going to marry. the first one i was madly, deepy, truely, mentially, and etc in love with and i wanted to be with him for the rest of my life but it turned out that he wanted a younger girl and married her shortly after meeting her. WTF is that all about when i have known him since middle school? i'm still with the second guy but it's not going too well right now. everything is going wrong and sometimes i just want to say screw it. someone i really like, and have dated in my childhood is still interested in me and if things dont work out with this guy then i just might go with the other one coz he's been on the outs with his girl for a long time now. even his mother has told me about it.. so i know it's not a lie.

It sounds like you have already made up your mind what you want sweetie.

[mmangas]

Pretty sure I wanna test drive the car before you buy it....just saying.  BUTTT if you have waited this long you should wait until you are married.

[anubabs]

It's a good idea. it there are some ppl who may get rapped n such, we do not need to make them feel worse than they already do.

[cwoodard34]

my honest oppion is its up tp you as long as you and your partner have nothing to hide then why worry about the sexx before or after marriage

[debraleesparks]

lol @ cuppycake.....no 'puss' in bag uhh? lol

She is a very smart girl that works entirely too hard and I trust her! She has a wonderful, loving, supportive boyfriend that adores her! My husband and I both think he is a great guy. Actually her boyfriend is an ordained minister and is the one that married us lol! She does make me feel old though as she is turning 21 in December!

   THAT'S WONDERFUL CUPPYCAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Here's a rose for your girl !!!!

[cwoodard34]

ok so with the whole bible thing i feel that men  wrote the bible and put thier own opoions in it there for all of the bible i cant believe 

[jaymz462]

Get what you can while the gettin's good, I say 

[velvet53]

To me it depends on the couple and what their feelings are in the matter. If there is a disagreement then if their love for each other is strong they will work it out.

[twol]

Try it before ya buy it is what I told my daughter LOL!

Hahah love this very true.

[inluvwitmm]

I think it's an individual's decision to make with their significant other. Other people that are not in the relationship can have an opinion, of course, but the ultimate decision belongs to the couple. People shouldn't tell other people what they can or can not do...or make them feel bad for making a decision they think is right for them. Life is full of choices, some are more difficult than others...those are the ones you really have to think about yourself and make yourself - not let other people decide for you.

[sweetmermaid]

It's a personal decision.