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aggie49

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is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« on: January 03, 2011, 12:59:35 pm »
i only have 3 best friends the rest have usually tried to use me so i usually protect myself from any one else so its best friends for me :wave: :heart: :star:

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #1 on: January 03, 2011, 05:03:38 pm »
i have a few best/close friends that i share everything
with, and then i have quite a few acquaintances who
i talk to, but don't really know much about me on a deep
or personal level. i don't like getting too personal with
co-workers or friends of friends unless we click really
well...

i prefer to have meaningful conversations and i'm very
good at listening and empathizing with others, so for me,
its better to have a few best friends  :thumbsup:
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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #2 on: January 03, 2011, 07:48:17 pm »
Its best to have it that way.  Not everyone is meant to be your best friend.  The ones that truly care and truly matter should be the ones that are front and center in your life.  The others can take a back seat to everyone else.

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #3 on: January 04, 2011, 11:39:56 am »
i have a selected amount of friends i dont have that much that im close with so id say i have more accquatiences , i like it that way because if we fall out of contact theres little to no guilt

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #4 on: January 04, 2011, 11:49:39 am »
best friends just so there always someone you trust by yur side

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #5 on: January 04, 2011, 11:51:31 am »
Both, I have many acquaintances that I chat with occasionally and I also have 2 close friends that I tell everything too. I think a good mixture is good.

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #6 on: January 05, 2011, 12:35:43 pm »
I have more accquantiences then friends.  If you end up with one good friend in your life time then that is pretty good.  Friends are far, few, and between

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #7 on: January 05, 2011, 12:43:37 pm »
I have more accquantiences then friends.  If you end up with one good friend in your life time then that is pretty good.  Friends are far, few, and between

Agreed!  I have many, many acquaintances, but only one true friend.  I can tell him just about anything and not have to worry about him telling other people. I have so many acquaintances, that I can't even count them.  I can tell them things, but certainly not the things that are very personal.

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #8 on: January 05, 2011, 12:58:39 pm »
Acquaintances works better for me.  So called best friends always betray you.  It happened to me.  I stopped speaking to her because of the betrayal.
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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #9 on: January 06, 2011, 02:26:14 pm »
I don't have any best friends right now. Not in a while really, I have more acquaintances. But I think it would be better to at least have one best friend. Someone you can count on and talk to if you need to.

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #10 on: January 15, 2011, 11:27:53 am »
Having a best friend or just a good group of friend work better then accquatiences for me. Best friends get u

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #11 on: January 20, 2011, 10:59:03 am »
I feel that a person can have many many acquaintences but only few true friends.  Both are important but at the end of the day your true friends are what matter.

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #12 on: January 20, 2011, 11:03:38 am »
True friends are the ones that matter, but most of us have more acquaintances.

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #13 on: January 20, 2011, 01:59:27 pm »
Friends! an aquaintance is most likely not going to be there when you really need someone!

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Re: is it better to have accquatience or best friends
« Reply #14 on: January 20, 2011, 02:01:37 pm »
For me I got about 3-4 best friends, then the people who I maybe go to concerts with or hang out after work or something are my accquatience. Best friends are nice to have but  accquatience should be people you trust but don't get close with. Good to have a mixture of both.

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