Married or not Married

[madeara]

Marriage can be terrific when the marriage is based on respect.  I am not married.

[Glorita2]

I'm divorced, but plan to tie the knot again sometime in Sept.  We've been together a little over a year and are expecting our first kid.  It can be challenging, but if you love each other and are willing to work at it nothing can come between you.  It also helps when the person you're marrying has also been married before.... no crazy expectations and you already know what doesn't work! LOL   

[marcar1008]

  Happily married going on 15 yrs. this December   

[torchperf]

Married for 14 years also,  love being married!

[surveydad]

I have been married for 9 years this August, 

[inertia4]

Well I was married for 17 years, it ended in disaster. She was one sneaky B@@@h. She cheated not once but a few times. After the first time we went to marriage counseling and worked things out. After our children were born, she was influenced by two very deceitful people, which in my opinion ruined my marriage. I will never do it again. I wish I could go back and change it. There was a girl I knew back then that liked me and I liked her, but she was going out with someone. I did not believe and still do not believe in interfering with other relationships. I would have went out with her if she left the guy she was with. That did not happen then. 2 years ago I bumped into her and we hit it off right away, like it was 25 years ago. I now am a happy person. I have the woman I was supposed to be with. But marriage is nothing today. A piece of paper will not change anything. It causes problems. Gene Simmons said it best, "Who wants to get married? Marriage is an institution, I do not want to be institutionalized." One sentence is enough for me.

[sbmackie]

I am married for going on 3 yrs, him and our baby are my life.

[trsaze72]

I also agree marriage, diplomas, certificates are just pieces of paper. I was married once, got divorced, now with a wonderful man after 5 years of divorce. I have 3 children and he has 5, we have 2 dogs and are a very happy family. I used to think it would be hard to adjust with a blended family but its nothing because I love having kids around. Maybe one day we will marry, but for now I tell my boyfriend when he is ready.

[shepherdchik]

I was married and had my daughter young and within a few years we were divorced. I feel like it was rushed. I would love to get married again but am in no rush this time. I am perfectly happy just being with someone without a piece of paper to say we are committed

[trucktina]

I'm single, but almost got married a couple times. I always had to end the relationships; one of the men was crazy, the other one stole money out of my checking account. I don't know if I'll ever get married, but it makes me sad to hear people say marriage isn't important. My parents are still married after 41 years. They are so different personality-wise, but I think the piece of paper and the commitment made them stick it out. I'm grateful that they did!

[angsilva2000]

Married or not married its either way to me is ok.

[Thumper18]

Not married.Hopefully will get married soon lol Been w/ my boyfriend now for 7 years so its kinda like were married already lol 

[BrittaJo14]

:DHay people was wondering how many of us are married are getting married are not married in here lol im married and love it been married for 14yrs lol just wonted to see what people say about marriage now a days its so much divorce going on it not funny in fact im about to renew my vowes soon god bless.

Not married, but might as well be. I have 2 little boys with the love of my life. We have been together for almost 5 years. We just can't afford it right now. A piece of paper wouldn't change anything anyway.

[CristinaL]

well I'm 21 going to 22, and I'm not married, but I'll love to get married with my current boyfriend in the future. and we believe that God will help us, but that's why we are waiting for Gods time  Hope to get married soon.

[aggie49]

not married never again was married 4 times so now i and my man just say we are permanetly engaged he was married 1 time and neith of us feel the need to get married we have been together for going on 8 years now and we never have a fight or a disagreement i love it i feel like this ladies and guys usally as soon as you sign your name to that piece of paper it changes everything at least for me it does they feel like they can controll or own me and noone controls me or owns me