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gadi50

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Re: what is the best way to ask a girl out.
« Reply #15 on: August 30, 2011, 08:06:42 pm »
Movies are always a decent start but personally I would go with something a little more fun and adventurous. When you at the movies you sit and watch.....how are you going to get a better idea if she feels the same if your not talking? Find an activity she really enjoys and do that to help bring out her personality and show her how fun you can be around. For example if she likes doing hiking or nature walks say he I found this really cool place would you like to go.

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« Reply #16 on: August 31, 2011, 05:14:30 pm »
Movies are a good start, but then after the movie you should go out for drinks/ back to either her house or yours just to 'chill'.  :icon_rr:

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« Reply #17 on: August 31, 2011, 05:19:02 pm »
Movies are a good idea, however, you wont have much time to chat.  It sounds like you already know each other though.  Take her to dinner.   ;D Good luck!

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Re: what is the best way to ask a girl out.
« Reply #18 on: September 01, 2011, 04:46:46 am »
don't start!this is the best what you have both right now!!!

anything further cost TROUBLE...hehehehe
just kidding...
no of course ask her out!
you can just go for a walk!!!SIMPLE!

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« Reply #19 on: September 01, 2011, 03:20:54 pm »
oh thank you.  :icon_rr:

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Re: what is the best way to ask a girl out.
« Reply #20 on: September 01, 2011, 04:01:01 pm »
Just be yourself for one. Don't say any of those bad lines like some guys tend to so Then just go up to her and ask how she's doing then ask her if she would like to go out sometime.  Depending on your ages  whether you go out for drinks or not.  Usually going out to eat first to get to know each other some and find out what each likes to do.  Then ask if she'd like to watch a movie, or something else.  I wouldn't go to the club scene just yet til you know what each other likes.  Just don't do or say anything that makes you come off fakey.   :wave:

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« Reply #21 on: September 01, 2011, 04:20:35 pm »
Movies are always a decent start but personally I would go with something a little more fun and adventurous. When i am  at the movies i sit and watch.....how she am going to get a better idea if she feels the same if am not talking?i Find an activity she really enjoys and i do that to help her bring out her personality and show her how fun i  can be around. For example if she likes doing hiking or nature walks say he I found this really cool place would you like to go. Or if she likes sports i go to an event together. i Just make sure i like doing the same thing am are taking her to. so does that sound okay to you guys?

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« Reply #22 on: September 01, 2011, 09:32:07 pm »
Next time you walk into a room and she is there, just go up and ask her if she believes in love at first sight, or should you go out and come in again. A little humor can go a long way at loosening things up.

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« Reply #23 on: September 03, 2011, 11:22:33 am »
old buddy ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :thumbsup:

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« Reply #24 on: September 03, 2011, 11:53:19 am »
old buddy ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :thumbsup:
Hey it worked for me.

I will never forget the night I was sitting on the front steps of a dance while my friend went to the little boys room, when my future wife (who I had danced with at the last dance) walked up alone and said, "What are you doing here?" to which my quick reply was, "Waiting for you!" and it was three months later that we had our wedding.

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« Reply #25 on: September 03, 2011, 04:38:08 pm »
that's awesome!!!! :wave:

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« Reply #26 on: September 03, 2011, 04:51:21 pm »
Sounds like to me the 2 of you are already going out but neither of you know it yet. You just have to make a move man and sounds like to me everything will be OK after you do. :thumbsup: You better hurry up though before this other guy closes in on your woman.  :'( :'(

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« Reply #27 on: September 03, 2011, 05:01:55 pm »
hey guys and girls help me, i like this girl and we been friends since 5th grade, and i like here idk if she likes me tho. and i want to ask her out how should i start? :-[
Well how old are you guys now? it all depends on how she feels, has she given you any clues or anything like this to have you to believe that you can be more then just friends, because even if she has feelings for you as more then friends, she mite not want to be with you because if you do become bf and gf, and some how you realize your not the one's for eachther she needs to be resurred that you guys can still be just as good friends before you where . and if you can't be just as good friends after you guys break up then she will not risk your friendship! if ultimaley it means you guys will never be close again, thats the first thing i would do.....

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Re: what is the best way to ask a girl out.
« Reply #28 on: September 04, 2011, 11:45:54 am »
make sure your friends first and then just ask her

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Re: what is the best way to ask a girl out.
« Reply #29 on: September 04, 2011, 07:46:53 pm »
lol That's the best advice I've seen so far in this thread.   8)

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