My first husband the kids father did not accuse me of it, but boy was he guilty of doing it, it got so bad that he didn't even try to cover it up. But he also kept me at home all the time. the only time I went to town was to get groceries or take the kids to the doctor. And of course I always had the kids with me. But he would go to the Elks 2-4 times a week and then started taking jobs out of town a lot. Oh well I kept the farm and the liquid feed business going. Finally had enough and moved out and we split up. What a peaceful time.