« on: January 31, 2022, 06:27:28 pm »Message ID: 1367165
Thank you for your advice. He has started going to anger management. In counseling I guess I have to take some responsibility. We both worked to build his company, and when I got pregnant with our first he insisted I stop work. He worked 2 sometimes 3 jobs to support us and start a business. I didnít return to work until our youngest was out of high school, and he didnít want me to work, but I was bored so I returned. All of our life he never questioned how much I spent, what I bought, or did we need it. Then the pandemic came. In the beginning his work was zero, but I was still working, although I donít make anywhere what he did, but I was able to support us, and keep paying the bills, but we had to pull some out of savings. Finally, this year heís back to working full time, his crew has returned, and the office staff is back. So I went shopping, first time in 3 years. I came home and for the first time he asked how much it cost and when I told him, he yelled if I was freaking nuts and take it back. I refused and yelled I can buy what I want, itís my money! He screamed your fxxxxxg money, I thought everything was our money. The yelling when on and I yelled if it wasnít for me we would have lost everything, you contributed nothing for 3 years Then it happened.