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Offers / Do you believe that your past defines who you are as a person today?
« on: December 17, 2013, 05:30:36 pm »Message ID: 829558
I have reasons to ask this question. There are people in this world who believe that a person's past defines them for life, and I am a living testimonial that it does not. While it is true that I have done things in my past, I did not define my entire life around it; I defined my own life. People also believe that you cannot change your life, but I have. Yet people still want to define me by my past. I have been married to my husband for two years and a woman I knew back then made the statement that my husband might as well had married her, since he married me. When the subject came up, he told me about it and I asked him why she would say that. She did not want him to marry me, but has no control in the matter, since we are both consenting adults. I also asked him why he didn't want her. He told me she married a man, they both cheated on each other, and she threw hot water on him to burn him. The end result was that he almost killed her because of it. First of all, I will tell you this: if I have to do something that heinous, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship at all. I wouldn't want a man if I had to be that silly to prove a point. What is your take on it?


