Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.

[SenoritaLadyBoss]

The husband is at fault..is your friend married ?? Why dosent he break up with his wife or something.. and if your friend gets caught thats up to her if she wants to deal with all the extra drama

[smylyfayce]

Both. I say both because the husband is wrong for cheating on his wife, and the mistress is wrong if she is aware that she's been dating a married man and she continues to carry on a relationship with him. If the woman doesn't know that she is dating a married man, then it is the husband's fault. 

[shorty8480able]

both i have no respect for people who cheats and hurts people feelings

[mycrysta]

BOTH.

[klvcaudillo]

SenoritaLadyBoss- no she's not married, and he's only been married for 2 yrs and has been cheating for 1 1/2yrs.  Basically 6mo of marital FAITHFUL bliss.

[sands01]

They are both at fault. I could understand if she didn't know he was married, but it sounds like she does. I think she should just end it. If she tries to tell his wife, his wife may blame her and she could end up in a lot of trouble. If he won't end it and keeps trying then she should tell his wife and make sure he knows she will tell her. Good luck to your friend.

[thanhkle2003]

Sleeping with a married man is wrong. It's wrong For the married man because he betrayed his love for his wife. And if he has children, his trust and love for his children is down the drain as well. As for the gal that is doing this bad karma, she has no respect for herself. This kind of deed doesn't result in anything good. You can expect to have a peaceful life with this action.
If you find yourself in this situation, get out asap. It's never good and the longer you wait, the deeper the wound.

[lynnc35]

Tell her that you are her friend, and that is why you cannot stand quiet, tell her it is her choice, what she does, but she will get hurt in the end, not to mention the family she is tearing apart, What God puts together, let no man put asunder, and that my dear friend is good advice, whether she takes it or not, you were her friend and did what was right.

[Haiku7]

Definately both are at fault! So sad that he could only remain faithful for 6 months!

[mara7]

It is both their fault.   He probably started flirting with her, if not.   Then
if he is commited to his marriage, he would mention his wife and the affair
would not of started.   

[dirtditty]

if you ask me I would have to say there both to blame but hey that's between the two of them.

[walksalone11]

I find this thread very interesting.
I lost count by the second page how many times members jumped to one conclusion or the other without any information giving to support that conclusion, then judgment was handed down based on that conclusion....wow.

I sure hope I never face a jury "of my peers?".

[knapier]

 I THINK BOTH ARE AT FAULT IF THE MISTRESS KNEW THE MAN WAS MARRIED.  BUT I THINK THE MAN IS MORE AT FAULT .IF THE MISTRESS KNEW HE WAS GUILTY SHE IS JUST AS GUILTY AS THE MARRIED MAN. ALTHOUGH THE WIFE SHOULDNT BLAME THE MISTRESS . THIS EXCUSES THE MANS BEHAVIOR. THE MAN IS THE ONE THE WIFE SHOULD BE THE MOST FURIOUS WITH. THE HUSBAND WAS THE ONE WHO BETRAYED HER NOT HIS MISTRESS.

[dpettit503]

The Husband is at fault!

[dmalsbury]

try not to get involved!