haveing alot of intercourse makes the marriage/relationship last long?

[topflynicca]

do you think haveing sex alot is the reason why marriages/relationships last for a long time?

[Boise40]

Only if you and your partner is a sex addict LOL. It seems like relationships don't last very long due to someone in the relationship not having enough money. I guess, its a good thing that I'm single if that was the case. I have enough money to support myself at the moment.

[noirlupe]

Its not the quantity as much as the quality.  If the quality is off the hook then you have something that will last long.

[smy0850]

No

[AdamH1978]

My marriage is very strong and I'm sure it will last long!

[Falconer02]

It's different for everyone, but imo it can help in a relationship-- noirelupe said it best I think.

[ghunter]

Well, having a lot like two or three times a day, or maybe every night.  When you first get marry you can keep your hands off of each other, but then comes the kids and you have other things to do, you cannot have alot or maybe once a week.  I have been marry for 34 years and in September 35 years and we have had the money problems the drug problems, but thur it all we stay there and work it out and our love grows more and more with the Lord's help, sex is just that sex, but being together in mind, body and soul is what counts.

[mh874892]

I think sex is just a small part in making a marriage successful. You have to be totally committed in all parts of the relationship. When it comes to the sex you just both have to be on the same page and enjoy being with each other. I don't think it necessarily has to be alot, just what is comfortable for the two of you.

[tzs]

Its part of it, yes but there is so much more to it than just that general statement.

[amrapali]

no.. sex is a small part of it.. all is depend on understanding , care for each other , love .
and most importent thing is faith.

[drandall]

Definitely more to a relationship than lots of sex.

[lorettahknox]

I think you might be too tired to go anywhere after having all those goodies. My advice is to get some good solid vitamins, eat plenty of vegetables and drink lots of water to stay hydrated. Have fun!

[wiersmak]

Its part of the reason, but you gotta spend sometime out of bed.  If you cant get along and dont have things in common outside the bedroom, it doesnt really matter how good the sex is.

[lgemini]

I know for me less is better.  I have been married for 17 yrs., but been with him for 24yrs .  Only in the past three years we had to slow down. When we were younger it was fun for us to have sex alot, but now since I am sick and he is older not so much.  We do love each other and spend time together.