OMG! Right Now I Don`t Know Why I Am Married

[diala84]

You really need to talk to him. I assume he wasn't always this way so I would tell him what you used to like about him and what has changed. Then make it clear that the way he is treating you is hurtful and that is why you are considering leaving him if things don't change. You can also try and find out the source of his frustration, anger and vindictive behavior. If he isn't responsive to this approach perhaps counseling or spending more time away from the things that bother him such as getting take out, doing activities together even if it is at home. Having someone else stay with him while you have some time for yourself can also help you really clear your head and make a decision about the relationship.

Try to work it out and if there are no changes give an ultimatum and leave. At least you can say you tried to work things out and seek help and advice on the matter.   

[hensleyll]

Thanks For The Advice! I Took Day Off Of Both My Jobs , We Spent The whole Day At Home Alone,Had A Big Breakfast And Just Lounged Around Watching Movies And Talked He Has Been Feeling Less A Man Because Of His Disabillity!

[kingozzy]

why did you get married in the first place?

[hensleyll]

Because we love each other!

[marcar1008]

Why did you rush to marry him    You should of taken your time to know him better. I feel sorry,    :crybaby2:hope everything turns out ok.

[hensleyll]

We lived together for 10 years had kids then grandkids then we got married,dont think that was rushing,do you? It just changed when we got married somehow,Not neccesarily for the good.

[acurtsinger2]

girl mine uses me for my money i swear if he does not get a job by christmas i'm out after the first of the year i'm so done 

my guy has been laid off for 2 years and his unemployment ran out in july...i've been paying the bills and i'm getting tired of it too.  it's not just the moneythough,ican't  stand himhaning around thee house day in and day ou

[hensleyll]

I Know Right And Every  morning Why Do You Need To Go Just Stay Here! Someone Has To Pay The Bills !

[kangagirl1321]

my man can be an *bleep* too but i'm glad i'm not as sensitive as i used to be. i am stronger now then i was. 

[phantomdragonv2x]

Then why don't you figure this stuff out? I don't get why people can be people and just talk things out rather then posting in a forum of all places about their problems...

[mercy1227]

ohh ohhh not good!!!

[lorettahknox]

Pray for him, he needs help. No one can be happy who goes through life like that. Don't let his negativity ruin your happiness. If it becomes unbearable seek change. Life is too short to live in an unhappy situation. Choose a circumstance in life that brings peace and a person who knows how to give love.

[Sunshine4372]

I was married to one of them once.  Thank God I got out while I did.  He was mentally and physically abusive, and I know that I did not deserve that.  Counselling is your best bet, if that don't work then ditch his *bleep*, and wait for Karma to kick his *bleep*.

[tzs]

My husband is the most hateful *bleep* i have ever run across!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GOD Please Give Me Strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Um, is he truly an *bleep*, or do you not have empathy for what he is going through? Many marriages end because of this. You need to be on the same page, work together and talk to eachother, before it turns in to "my way, or the highway!!!" for the both of you.

[hensleyll]

Update: We Share A Job All Expensives,I kept my parttime job outside the home we still have some arguements but it has calmed way down,I can just about live with this we still have some issues,working on them . I WOULD LIKE TO THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR SUPPORT.IT HAS REALLY HELPED TO KNOW I WAS NOT THE ONLY ONE OUT HERE WITH THESE KINDS OF ISSUES! He still has alot of compromising to do but he is willing to try I`m hopeful,will let you know later! AGAIN THANKS LOVE YOU ALL!