relationship

[Rayshipooki]

relationships suck, i hate being hurt. How do i date without getting myself in a bind.

[ahunter300]

you have to know what you need in life.  when i met my wife, she was going out with another guy.  so, i asked him if they were serious.  he said he was only dating her because his roommate had asked him to double date.  i told him that was good because i was going to marry her ( and this was after only having met her once).  this month we celebrate our 43rd anniversary. good luck!

[joab97]

My in-laws the same thing almost.  He saw her at a dance and told her sister he was going to marry her, they got married 3 months latter and it's been almost 46 years!   It comes when you least expect it!!  Good luck!

[wldncrzy643]

Thats great that you have been married that long.  The way things are nowdays its so easy to give up and walk away, to start over.  My husband and I have been together since I was 14,  and I will be 35 in a couple weeks.  It takes love and a strong commitment to each other to make a marriage survive.  Congratulations and I hope you celebrate 43 more...

[sherrybg1]

I say you just dont date,even when you get married you will have to put up with the cheating yep I said it even if the spouse dont know you still cheated (thats to all the folks that are gonna claim they didnt when they did.

[mrisha]

Relationships are not easy.  Compatibility, respect and trust plays a major part in trying to establish a good relationship.  I've also been hurt, and it scares me to attempt to get in a relationship because people lie so much and love playing stupid games.

[kesto4]

I've been my dating my girlfriend for 14 months and I knew she was the one within the first week. Granted I am only 19 and we won't get married for a while, I just know she is the one. It's a long and complicated story but to make it short, we met on a school trip to chicago and a few months later TPing a teacher (which I got in trouble for, but totally worth it).

[Rayshipooki]

you have to know what you need in life.  when i met my wife, she was going out with another guy.  so, i asked him if they were serious.  he said he was only dating her because his roommate had asked him to double date.  i told him that was good because i was going to marry her ( and this was after only having met her once).  this month we celebrate our 43rd anniversary. good luck!

 AHWWW, That uis exactley how i want to meet my husbad.

[audley79]

you will never find someone if you dont put yourself out there.  You might get hurt along the way, but if you dont get out there and try, you will never find love

[CompKillaz]

just go fishing and play with the bait

[coolchickq33]

Nothing ventured nothing gained.  It's better to have loved and gotten hurt then not to love at all.

[joab97]

You never know until you try.  When I first went out with my husband was just a one night thing,,and here it is 13 wonderful years latter!!!!!

[justdietryin]

do something fun and public to get to know her and not romantic and private, then it might not be a tough on you

[martharice]

I have dated one man for a few months. A woman I worked with set me up with one of her cousins. He was okay but I really was not happy with him. He seemed to not care or worry about anything. He ate with my family and I on Easter Sunday. Shortly after he left his "other girlfriend" called me and asked me why my number was appearing on his phone. He had be dating two women at the same time1 How cheap, dishonest, and annoying! I have not really dated much since then. I often worry that I will never find the right person to date. I guess I set my standards and expectations too high. I am also very shy and private. I go to work, go home do work around the house, and then go to bed. I am not a big party person so I do not go out to bars and I do not flirt. I wish I could just run into the right man one day - someone who is descent, respectful, caring, HAS A JOB AND WILL HELP PAY BILLS, and will be truthful and faithful. I guess I better start looking hard.

[cah5525]

dating without getting yourself in a bind???
do you have to be with someone or, are you actively out looking for someone? i would say quit seeking and before you know it, someone will come into your life. i think that's how the right person comes along...they may not even be your "type" or who you were expecting to meet. it's all about two people finding that connection that makes them feel like they are falling in love with their best friend. all the best to you...love shouldn't suck or hurt!