sometimes people

[svetka05]

I am sorry this is happening with you and I understand your frustration. I probably would feel the same way. People these dayssseams to not care to have responsibilities in their lives anymore...sad.

[tantricia44]

Glad, u were able to get that off your chest but aside from the large age gap I think the only thing they are in love with is not each other but the weed! That relationship isn't even considered dating, so don't even consider them as a boyfriend/girlfriend couple!

[teerz]

If they are happy with each other it shouldnt be much concern. i understand the difference between ages but if he happens to have kids and much older maybe her being 21 with a mature male may help her outlook on life on more of positive path. Or maybe a lesson that she may learn in later life

[moon29]

my mother and father are 20 years different in age she had two kids and my dad had three prior to them getting together and they have been married over 35 years so the age shouldnt matter and depending on where you all live smoking weed is no longer illegal.

[mjdoug03]

That's a big age difference. I could never date someone who's twice my age!

[quietpal]

Well they are two consenting adults and if they want to smoke weed all day, it's their life.

[ljrjess69]

it is what it is,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

[vickysue]

When I was young and dumb, I married a man 9 years older then me. The one  thing I can say about it was we had 2 great sons. He was so domineering . We were married 11 years before he put my name on the checking account, like I did not know how to write a check. Wasn't that it was control.  We were married 15 years and the last were awful as he was running around on me and doing things I did not like.  So I left.  But a person just does not know  how another will be until you have been married for awhile. 

[sherryinutah]

I believe there are reasons why people are attracted to each other.  Sometimes they have something to learn with and from each other.  We actually have an opportunity to learn a lot about our selves and others via our relationships.  Live, and let live.

 

[inertia4]

I honestly think it is up to the individual. 20 years difference is a lot. And maybe at some point the girl will change her mind. Most women that age do change their minds.