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mnichols4

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Why
« on: October 30, 2017, 07:21:06 am »
Why do some people always accuse others of cheatting? Do you think its because there cheatting? Would u stay with someone who always accuse u of cheatting?
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Re: Why
« Reply #1 on: October 30, 2017, 06:26:37 pm »
You're probably right, the accuser is probably the one who's the cheater!

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« Reply #2 on: October 30, 2017, 08:21:03 pm »
They may be having issues with themselves that may cause them to think negatively about themselves which makes them feel unworthy which in turn causes them to feel that there is cheating.
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« Reply #3 on: October 31, 2017, 07:06:35 pm »
innocent until proven guilty. They can accuse you of cheating but without any proof, there is no concrete evidence.  8)

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« Reply #4 on: October 31, 2017, 10:49:48 pm »
No clue to be honest they could be cheating or just paranoid unless there right about the person there accusing. To me most of the time its paranoia

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Re: Why
« Reply #5 on: November 01, 2017, 05:54:17 am »
I had a boyfriend that used to always accuse me of cheating and it turned out that he was the one cheating on me the entire time we dated. 

If that is happening to you .... you should think long and hard as to whether you want to stay with that person.  Once the trust is gone in a relationship there is no getting it back.  I for one cannot be in a relationship where there is no trust.
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Re: Why
« Reply #6 on: November 01, 2017, 07:13:34 am »
It's probably because of insecurity. They feel like they need and excuse to make you feel insecure as well.

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Re: Why
« Reply #7 on: November 05, 2017, 07:49:53 pm »
Generally speaking, I feel like anyone who is always distrusts others, is in fact untrustworthy them self.  I feel that applies to cheating.

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Re: Why
« Reply #8 on: November 05, 2017, 09:38:11 pm »
They are insecure.  My bf used to do this a lot.  I never cheated on him.

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Re: Why
« Reply #9 on: November 06, 2017, 01:35:46 am »
Most of the time the person who is cheating try to put the blame on someone else.

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Re: Why
« Reply #10 on: November 06, 2017, 02:40:43 am »
Not if I disagree with the other person.
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« Reply #11 on: November 06, 2017, 04:33:17 am »
I don't think I would stay with someone who accused me of cheating. Nine times out of ten, they are accusing you in order to deflect from their cheating behavior. Either that, or they're insanely secure. Regardless of the reason, I would not put up with that behavior.

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Re: Why
« Reply #12 on: November 06, 2017, 11:01:35 am »
They usually are trying to distract you so you don't notice the things that they are doing wrong

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Re: Why
« Reply #13 on: November 06, 2017, 11:54:29 am »
I feel they are cheaters themselves or have been cheated on and can't trust another person.

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Re: Why
« Reply #14 on: November 06, 2017, 01:30:38 pm »
I feel they are cheaters themselves or have been cheated on and can't trust another person.

I believe you are right on both counts. I have said this my entire life.

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