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camellia0

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7 Reasons Why People Lie
« on: August 03, 2018, 07:11:06 pm »
1.  To take what is not rightfully theirs

2.  To escape accountability

3.  To create a fantasy/false self-esteem to escape their mundane life

4.  To avoid punishment

5.  To inflict pain

6.  To feel better in the moment; to “steal” admiration

7.  To gain advantage to exploit others

Does any of these 7 remind you of anyone you know?

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #1 on: August 03, 2018, 08:51:16 pm »
I think we have all lied at some point for one or more of these reasons ;)

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #2 on: August 03, 2018, 09:20:25 pm »
How about entertainment. How about practicing acting or dealing with the streets. Keep it real.  :glasses-nerdy:

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #3 on: August 04, 2018, 06:28:18 am »
:party: :glasses-nerdy: :silly: Sad truth of a liar. Some how some lie's finds a way to come out later at some point in peoples lives. Its best to keep the lies to yourself and not come out for others to hear.  :party: :glasses-nerdy: :silly:
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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #4 on: August 04, 2018, 06:58:06 am »
Some lies are not malicious. Some lies are told to spare someone from hurt...or make someone feel better.  Is that right or wrong?  I don't know.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #5 on: August 04, 2018, 07:05:57 am »
I agree with what you posted and I also agree with Bremer51. Not all lies are not out to hurt. Just maybe to protect someone's feelings. A white lie never hurts every once in a while.
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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #6 on: August 04, 2018, 07:08:49 am »
I can agree with your list of 7  reasons why people lie, camellia0.  A lot of lies are told to hurt others or to hide truth.

But I also agree with bremer51 that all lies are not malicious.  Some lies are told to lessen hurt or spare hurt.
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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #7 on: August 04, 2018, 07:09:17 am »
Other than minor so-called "white lies," the trouble with lying (besides the obvious) is that you have to remember what you said to whom.  That is how you get caught.  Once you start the spin, we often forget the details of what was originally said.  In fact, that is how the police often catch criminals.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #8 on: August 04, 2018, 07:45:41 am »
I think some people lie because it's just what they do! so stupid.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #9 on: August 04, 2018, 03:18:48 pm »
I have someone in my family like that. And I do not know why she does it. Does not mind hurting  my feelings at  any giving time . I hat being lied to, lied about. And anytime I might say something about it around our stepfather, He just tells me I shouldn't let it bother me. How would he feel if it was like that to him all the time.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #10 on: August 04, 2018, 03:23:27 pm »
I agree with other here that not all lies are malicious, sometimes they are o protect others.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #11 on: August 04, 2018, 05:06:10 pm »
A few of those remind me of someone. I worked with a woman who exaggerated things, and in some cases outright lied. I never called her on anything since the things she lied about was usually about herself.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #12 on: August 04, 2018, 05:31:20 pm »
I have found that most people because it comes easy to them.  They never realize all the stress it takes to tell a lie.  Telling the truth is stress free because you never have to remember what you've said.
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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #13 on: August 04, 2018, 09:42:20 pm »
Sadly yes. They sound like my ex.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why People Lie
« Reply #14 on: August 05, 2018, 07:04:50 am »
If you always tell the truth , you never have to remember stuff ! It's much easier on your brain.

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