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My Toxic Older Sister
« on: June 23, 2021, 08:10:01 pm »
I have a sister that is very negative. She was drunk one night and we were over the phone, she started talking about how important life insurance is and that she has 3 policies. She also states that I am going to die and my cat.
I confronted her the next day and she said she didn't say it and I told her she did. She said she must have been drunk.

Weeks later, she calls me on a Sunday morning letting me know she found out grandfathers grave, whom has been dead since I was 10 or 11. All she does is visits graves.
She also talked bad about our cousins children saying they look like something is wrong with them and that is wrong talking about children because her only grandson has autism.

I am on a path in my life where I cannot take this toxicity anymore. I have stopped calling and texting her. Am I wrong for not talking to her? I know at some point I will have to communicate.

She is pure evil family. Her best friend since childhood cut her off and she saw her in a restaurant and sent our cousin over to try to talk with her, her ex friend said no. She then called me saying she hoped something bad happens to her.

She also claims that I'm my mothers favorite. I feel deep inside that she wants something bad to happen to me or my son. Your thoughts?
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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #1 on: June 24, 2021, 05:18:31 am »
Saying she is negative sounds like an understatement given everything you've said but she is not wrong about the death thing if we're going to be truthful. As for you being wrong for not talking to her, since when did you have too? Because society says so? I personally don't give a f**k about society and I'm all for ridding individuals whom are negative influences in ones life.
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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #2 on: June 24, 2021, 09:54:59 am »
She needs help. Stay away from her. Don't even listen to her in any way, shape or form.

You need to take care of yourself.
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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #3 on: June 24, 2021, 11:39:50 am »
she does sound toxic id stay away from her. if you talk to her say no death talk please,.

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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #4 on: June 24, 2021, 11:54:13 am »
I also have very strange sister. She likes to call when she is drunk & high on drugs. She lives with an older boyfriend - 78ish & she is early 50's!

She is always tell stories that nothing is the truth! She has been nickname is Drama Queen!

Both my parents & I do Not have any thing to do with her!

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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #5 on: June 24, 2021, 04:48:00 pm »
I also have very strange sister. She likes to call when she is drunk & high on drugs. She lives with an older boyfriend - 78ish & she is early 50's!

She is always tell stories that nothing is the truth! She has been nickname is Drama Queen!

Both my parents & I do Not have any thing to do with her!




Yep! It's crazy that she has to be that way. The world is already toxic and depressing and having to deal with it with a relative is sad.
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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #6 on: June 24, 2021, 04:48:38 pm »
she does sound toxic id stay away from her. if you talk to her say no death talk please,.



I have decided to keep my distance. Thanks for commenting
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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #7 on: June 24, 2021, 04:50:13 pm »
She needs help. Stay away from her. Don't even listen to her in any way, shape or form.

You need to take care of yourself.
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She called me today and I didn't answer. She texted me and asked if I was okay. I said yeah.  I'm keeping my distance from her. Thanks for your advice
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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #8 on: June 24, 2021, 05:27:41 pm »
She needs help. Stay away from her. Don't even listen to her in any way, shape or form.

You need to take care of yourself.
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Agree...

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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #9 on: June 25, 2021, 10:11:14 am »
She needs help. Stay away from her. Don't even listen to her in any way, shape or form.

You need to take care of yourself.
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  Agreed.  She sounds like she needs help.   Don't let her bring you down. 

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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #10 on: July 04, 2021, 04:11:02 pm »
I have a sister that is very negative. She was drunk one night and we were over the phone, she started talking about how important life insurance is and that she has 3 policies. She also states that I am going to die and my cat.
I confronted her the next day and she said she didn't say it and I told her she did. She said she must have been drunk.

Weeks later, she calls me on a Sunday morning letting me know she found out grandfathers grave, whom has been dead since I was 10 or 11. All she does is visits graves.
She also talked bad about our cousins children saying they look like something is wrong with them and that is wrong talking about children because her only grandson has autism.

I am on a path in my life where I cannot take this toxicity anymore. I have stopped calling and texting her. Am I wrong for not talking to her? I know at some point I will have to communicate.

She is pure evil family. Her best friend since childhood cut her off and she saw her in a restaurant and sent our cousin over to try to talk with her, her ex friend said no. She then called me saying she hoped something bad happens to her.

She also claims that I'm my mothers favorite. I feel deep inside that she wants something bad to happen to me or my son. Your thoughts?


Your sister needs help with her mental issues.   Why do you take calls from her if she makes you uncomfortable?  You do have the ability to stop taking her calls.
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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #11 on: July 04, 2021, 07:36:59 pm »
I have a sister that is very negative. She was drunk one night and we were over the phone, she started talking about how important life insurance is and that she has 3 policies. She also states that I am going to die and my cat.
I confronted her the next day and she said she didn't say it and I told her she did. She said she must have been drunk.

Weeks later, she calls me on a Sunday morning letting me know she found out grandfathers grave, whom has been dead since I was 10 or 11. All she does is visits graves.
She also talked bad about our cousins children saying they look like something is wrong with them and that is wrong talking about children because her only grandson has autism.

I am on a path in my life where I cannot take this toxicity anymore. I have stopped calling and texting her. Am I wrong for not talking to her? I know at some point I will have to communicate.

She is pure evil family. Her best friend since childhood cut her off and she saw her in a restaurant and sent our cousin over to try to talk with her, her ex friend said no. She then called me saying she hoped something bad happens to her.

She also claims that I'm my mothers favorite. I feel deep inside that she wants something bad to happen to me or my son. Your thoughts?


Your sister needs help with her mental issues.   Why do you take calls from her if she makes you uncomfortable?  You do have the ability to stop taking her calls.




mrisha. I didn't answer the last time she called. She texted me what's wrong?  I know I don't have to talk with her.
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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #12 on: July 13, 2021, 12:37:11 pm »
You really don't have to take her calls if you don't want to.  Text her once in awhile with something positive or just a courtesy like I'm doing fine hope you are too or I'm having a great week and leave it at that.  I don't thing she realize everyone is distancing themselves from her.

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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #13 on: July 14, 2021, 11:32:00 am »
Sorry to hear that, i know whats its like to be around toxic people,i just try not to be around them that much

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Re: My Toxic Older Sister
« Reply #14 on: July 14, 2021, 12:47:58 pm »
I have toxic sisters too. but I wish I had multi policies. I tell my kids they can insure me for them  :thumbsup:

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