Why is she hitting on my man?

[bankable305]

I have this good friend, so i thought. She keeps hitting on my man. We have been friends for several years. I noticed she will laugh at something, anything. Just to touch his arm or shoulder. As if the joke was so funny, yeah right. What should i do because, I'am trying to be good! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[lucky382001]

If she is a good friend talk to her and let her know how you feel about this.

[bankable305]

THANKS FOR THE ADVICE. I'M GOING TO GIVE HER ONE MORE CHANCE. AND, IF IT HAPPENS AGAIN. I WILL GIVE HER MY 2 CENTS. THANKS LOL.

[Fotoguy]

Talk to your MAN about this. Tell him how it makes you feel. Sometimes men like that kind of attention a little too much and if he really cares for you, then HE needs to step up and put a stop to her flirting. He needs to tell (not ask) her to stop touching him because it bothers YOU. If he really cares for you, then HE needs to take the lead (as a man) and do something to stop it before it gets out of control. 

[Storm61115]

well it could be innocent but if u dont know her as the touchy feely kind of person then theres a problem. u might want to mention how u feel and see if it stops.

[TaintedLust]

I'm dealing with the same thing. She's a girl my boyfriend works with. I've told him she had better stop with the crap. I refuse to let some girl mess with my happiness.

[livluvnlaugh]

Sometimes your friends aren't really your friends and they want whatever it is they can't or shouldn't have.  It is almost like a game and once the chase is done they go on to something else.

[Rastov]

Wow. Laughing and touching his shoulder. She's lucky you didn't stab her on the spot.

[jordandog]

Wow. Laughing and touching his shoulder. She's lucky you didn't stab her on the spot.

Hehe! Really, do you have a lot of insecurities or are you a very jealous type of woman? If he doesn't seem to have a problem with it, maybe you are pi**ed off at the wrong one. Sounds to me like he's enjoying the attention and it's him you ought to be talking to. Takes 2 to tango and he seems up for a little dancing.

[TaintedLust]

Wow. Laughing and touching his shoulder. She's lucky you didn't stab her on the spot.

Hehe! Really, do you have a lot of insecurities or are you a very jealous type of woman? If he doesn't seem to have a problem with it, maybe you are pi**ed off at the wrong one. Sounds to me like he's enjoying the attention and it's him you ought to be talking to. Takes 2 to tango and he seems up for a little dancing.

exactly