Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?

[JessieKateRose]

Everyone cheats.  If you don't cheat, it's cause you're a girl.

Sometimes girls cheat too, and not everyone cheats.
My boyfriend would never cheat on me and I know there are tons of other guys who wouldn't cheat on their girlfriends.
People saying dumb crap like that is just desensitizing people.
Cheating is not okay.

[Shmooi]

I believe it. I wouldn't give a second chance because once it's done, there's always doubt getting in the way.

[sweetmermaid]

I don't know if the word "always" applies always. People do learn and change. However, I can't afford to give such a person a second chance if I don't have to.

[ladybug6165]

Yes I do believe that statement. Unless the person makes a big change in their life it will continue to happen.

[NLSalProudMommy]

Yes. I believe it is true. If they aren't faithful once...Why would they be later?  :-

[Annella]

Everyone cheats.  If you don't cheat, it's cause you're a girl.

What a remark, and.....everyone does not cheat.  I know many people that are fulfilled and happy in their marriage or relationship, and have no "need" to cheat.  It's a sign of maturity to be loyal in a committed relationship.

I take it, you would not expect your girlfriend to cheat on you, but you would expect her to accept your cheating?

[dodgers16]

I always agreed with the motto but I also think that everybody can chnage! I think that cheaters can have a really bad experience and then try and not repeat there dumb mistakes lol

[syntheticbeauty]

I don't believe that applies to everyone. Some people learn their lesson others attempt to prefect cheating to not get caught.
 Others are tempted but resist. It's all based on the person and the situation.

[gesus]

Some people can't stop themseleves from cheating on their S.O they don't know how to deal with the pressure of quititng sometimes its a "game" to them ..and some do quit me myself I never did so I mean to each is own but if a woman decided to cheat on me then ill just stop talking to her altogether

[princess_gurl_2011]

nope. i have cheated but with my last boyfriend (now my fiance) 2 years is to long to waste. plus i love him and would never do that to him. i was stupid to do it before because i lost a good guy but everthing happens for a reason. huh?

[Storm61115]

I have cheated on 3 bf's and I haven't done it in years now. So, some people it holds true for but not me. I have stopped. I love my man.

[snewoyelhsa]

Depends on the circumstance. I believe most people deserve a second chance, but more often than not, people do cheat again. My ex-boyfriend cheated on me, started dating the girl he cheated on me with (a few hours before he broke up with me), and he's cheated on her over 10 times. (yet, she's still with him...). But, for some people, it really is just a one time thing. I think that's rare, though.

[BK_Adores_Chase]

I used to think once a cheater always a cheater, but guys do change.  They just have to come to the point in their life when they want to settle down and be with the one they love - and not want to screw the relationship up.  I would know - I dated this guy once (gorgeous) who was a BIG TIME CHEATER!  I never thought he would change, but now he has a girlfriend who he has been faithful to and is having a baby with her soon.  You can't make the change happen - you have to wait for him to want to change.

[MessiahMews]

Unfortunately, yes.  It's happened to me too many times too.

And I have serious trust issues because of it.

[mynevaeh]

Everyone cheats.  If you don't cheat, it's cause you're a girl.

I suppose you fall under that category "Once a Cheater Always a Cheater".  Sorry to break it to you, but not all guys cheat as well as not all girls are faithful.  And the funny thing is, that one day you'll fall in love and that girl may just cheat on you.  You will then learn from experience what it feels like.  A little saying "What goes around comes around"  which is payback!