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bennyetta

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My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« on: November 16, 2010, 03:28:44 pm »
We been together for about six months and i love him but him gettinga key is hard for me to do so confused don't know what to do.


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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #1 on: November 16, 2010, 03:32:26 pm »
you need to do what is right for you. if you guys have only been dating for 6 months and you are not ready to give him a key be honest with him. it will be worse for your relationship if you give him the access to your personal space before you are ready.

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #2 on: November 16, 2010, 03:37:00 pm »
I do agree. If you dont feel that it is right dont do it. Take your time. Make sure this is what you want. Dont be pressured. If anyone loves you. They should continue to love you if they dont always agree with you. If you aint feeling it Dont DO IT.

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #3 on: November 16, 2010, 03:41:37 pm »
I agree with the other replies u got....But if he loves you he will understand that you aren't ready to give him a key yet

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #4 on: November 16, 2010, 04:01:39 pm »
We been together for about six months and i love him but him gettinga key is hard for me to do so confused don't know what to do.

Hi Newbie....welcome!  Just a heads up ok?  Your posting this in the "Payments" section of the forum.  This topic would be better posted in Off-Topic, or Debate and Discuss.  Just FYI.  You'll get a lot more responses in those topics than this one.  This one is for people who have questions about their payments, and anything associated with such.

BTW, I wouldn't give him a key at all.  What if something goes wrong between you?  Then you have the mess of changing your locks, to prevent him coming and going whenever he wants.....even when you aren't there.  Not saying that your relationship is doomed, but it's not a good idea to give someone else access to your own space after only 6 months.  If he balks or gets mad, leave him by the curb.  That's a controlling attitude.

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #5 on: November 16, 2010, 05:36:47 pm »
NEVER give someone your key!! If you break up, he will do something bad to you!!!

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #6 on: November 16, 2010, 05:54:13 pm »
You have been dating 6 months and you love him............I'm not sure I understand relationships today.  Does he stay there every night?  Does he have a place of his own?  Do you have a key to his place? 
6 months could be the deciding point, either you are in or you are out.  Key or no key, do you trust him?  If not, NO KEY!  If yes, get married all ready......:)

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #7 on: November 16, 2010, 07:17:55 pm »
Has he offered a key to his place or does he not have a place?  If you really love this guy and think that its truly going to work out then maybe you should give him the key.  But if there are any doubts in your mind about it then you really shouldn't.

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #8 on: November 16, 2010, 07:23:52 pm »
Honestly Ive dealt with that sitiuation and we are not together but we lasted 5 years . However Id say if he helps pay the bills and you trust him its ok just make sure he is the right one before you make your decision . ok hun ? good luck !
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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #9 on: November 16, 2010, 07:27:59 pm »
Apparently you are having doubts or you would not have asked the question.  So you probably don't want to do it.  Follow your gut feeling.  Your intuition will never lie to you or lead you wrong.  If he truly loves you he will understand.  I wish I had this much sense when I was young.  Live Life To The Fullest!! :wave:

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #10 on: November 17, 2010, 12:11:22 pm »
I'm not sure how much you can love a person after only six months. Six months isn't really enough time to get to know someone. I think I would hold off on giving him a key or moving in together until you get to know him a little more.

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #11 on: November 18, 2010, 04:56:49 am »
Listen to your intuition. It sounds like it is telling you "do not give him a key".  So listen. 6 mos is such a very short time to know someone.

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #12 on: November 18, 2010, 05:07:27 am »
I would wait after a year or 2 of knowing the person. 6 months is too soon to give the person a key to anything. Anyways, its just a lot to think about.
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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #13 on: November 18, 2010, 06:27:09 am »
it really just depends on you and how you feel out him and how your relationship is with him.  but just remember when you two break up if you two break up its gonna be a huge mess:)  good luck with all that

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Re: My boyfriend asked me for a key what should i do?
« Reply #14 on: November 18, 2010, 06:41:49 am »
Never give anyone a key if you are not ready and when you feel you're ready and he is ready too don't give him a key go marry him. If you are ready to give him a key then you're ready to marry him.

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