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BizELady

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #15 on: June 22, 2011, 05:23:26 pm »
I'm asking that question because I have 5 grown Step children that I helped their Mother raise from when they were ages 5, 9,11,12,13 and today being Fathers Day not one of them got in touch with me to wish me a Happy Fathers Day. I been thinking maybe Step-Fathers don't Count on Fathers Day! Or maybe I made a mistake somewhere in their life!

YES !

Bio Fathers
Stepfathers
Godfathers
Uncles who have stepped up and played the role of a father

Your stepchildren should have celebrated this day with you.

BizELady

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #16 on: June 22, 2011, 05:25:24 pm »
Don't want to forget...

Foster parenting Fathers
and Fathers who adopt :-)

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #17 on: June 22, 2011, 06:50:14 pm »
Any man that helps to raise a child counts!  Happy belated Father's Day to you!  I am sure they will remember one day who was there for them when their children treat them the same way. :sad1:

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #18 on: June 23, 2011, 08:33:10 pm »
Yes they do count, sometime they are better than the real ones. Happy late Fathers Day.

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #19 on: June 23, 2011, 08:41:14 pm »
Of course Step fathers/mothers count.  Sometimes they can be the make or break for a child that's come from a broken home. 
Honestly, I'm not so sure it's these holidays themselves that actually count.   For a lot of people I know, the only holidays that really mean anything or are worth celebrating are xmas, thanksgiving and easter.   Memorial day and the forth of july get there props for a lot of others just because it's a day off work.

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #20 on: June 23, 2011, 08:46:50 pm »
I love the saying.... "Any man can be a father but it takes a special man to be a DAD  I am sorry that your Step Children did not contact you but I know a lot of people who didn't even contact their real fathers. 

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #21 on: June 24, 2011, 07:40:42 am »
yes def

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #22 on: June 25, 2011, 11:08:01 am »
ya they count.

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #23 on: June 25, 2011, 01:05:45 pm »
Yes they do count, mine was just controlling as ever, and I am glad my mom finally got fed up and kicked him to the curb.

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #24 on: June 25, 2011, 01:23:39 pm »
ye s i etaed

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #25 on: June 25, 2011, 01:26:28 pm »
na is too old

delanteena

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #26 on: June 25, 2011, 01:28:08 pm »
yes

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #27 on: June 28, 2011, 06:27:47 am »
yes, they count. Happy belated Fathers Day !

I think the mom should of pointed out this day and told them don't forget your step dad ! If they are grown and out of the house, they should at least call and wished you a good day.

I would not ONLY wish you a Father's Day.... I'd give you a Big HUG !! You are special cause you took care of these children that aren't even yours.

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #28 on: June 28, 2011, 07:16:02 am »
step fathers do count

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Re: Do Step-Fathers Count?
« Reply #29 on: June 28, 2011, 08:11:07 am »
Step fathers can indeed count.  there must be some reason why none of 5 stepchildren contacted you. How are your relationships otherwise?

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