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anotherlaujgirl

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Ex-Boyfriends
« on: July 17, 2012, 06:55:01 pm »

Is it normal to know be so upset knowing you and your ex are mad at each other?

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It's like I care, but at the same time i don't.

I don't know if i still have feelings, or if it's just my conscience telling me that i feel bad.

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« Reply #1 on: July 22, 2012, 07:39:44 pm »
yes, it's normal. especially if it's a recent break up or fight. IT GETS EASIER TO NOT CARE! I still have decent relationships with a few exs... but more often than not, I rather be done with them completely! You'll feel bad because it was someone you did care about for so long, and you feel like you hurt them. Distance yourself and it gets easier even quicker

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Re: Ex-Boyfriends
« Reply #2 on: July 30, 2012, 10:11:19 am »
yes, it's normal. especially if it's a recent break up or fight. IT GETS EASIER TO NOT CARE! I still have decent relationships with a few exs... but more often than not, I rather be done with them completely! You'll feel bad because it was someone you did care about for so long, and you feel like you hurt them. Distance yourself and it gets easier even quicker

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Re: Ex-Boyfriends
« Reply #3 on: July 30, 2012, 10:37:28 am »
Let him go........
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends
« Reply #4 on: July 30, 2012, 11:40:07 am »
ex-bofriends it seems whenever i get into a serious relation, my ex's become stalkers or already had stalkers tenacies. in conclusion if one doesn't get involved from the begining their wouldnt be such a thing as an ex.

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Re: Ex-Boyfriends
« Reply #5 on: July 30, 2012, 01:37:01 pm »
When the feelings are fresh sometimes we protect ourselves but shutting off those feelings instead. Time will help as long as you move on and find other friends, boyfriend, etc..

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« Reply #6 on: July 30, 2012, 02:20:43 pm »
I think u should move on and find someone else or just be single for a while having a bf can get stressful. Just 4get him and spend  some time with ur family or friends and that will 4 sure take ur mind off of him.

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Re: Ex-Boyfriends
« Reply #7 on: July 30, 2012, 05:59:57 pm »
Stop thinking about him and move on that is why he is an ex.  Keep it moving
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« Reply #8 on: July 30, 2012, 06:18:06 pm »
It takes time to move on when you have committed so much into the relationship.  To pass this time, develop your hobbies further - participate in outdoor activities, interact with your social group, etc.  The feelings will eventually fade away so it really helps to take your mind off of it.

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Re: Ex-Boyfriends
« Reply #9 on: July 31, 2012, 07:35:10 am »
It's pretty normal. Just keep moving on and forget about them, that's why they as ex!!!

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