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aggie49

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a very sad day for me
« on: May 03, 2013, 07:45:29 pm »
it was 1 year ago that my mom passed away and it still hurts to think she is not here with me but i know she is in a better place now and she is not in pain i just wish i could of seen her before she passed away i know it takes time to heal but it doesn't stop my hurt of missing her so rip mom i will see you again i promise :angel11: :angel12: :( :'(

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Re: a very sad day for me
« Reply #1 on: May 03, 2013, 10:11:57 pm »
it was 1 year ago that my mom passed away and it still hurts to think she is not here with me but i know she is in a better place now and she is not in pain i just wish i could of seen her before she passed away i know it takes time to heal but it doesn't stop my hurt of missing her so rip mom i will see you again i promise :angel11: :angel12: :( :'(

Hi aggie49.

I'm so sorry to hear about your mom passing away.  Every loss is hard, but it seems like losing a mom is especially hard.  It sounds like the two of you were close and/or very important to each other.  Even though you mom passed on, I believe she's still there with you in some way.  There is nothing that can separate the mother-daughter relationship!  I hope you do some things to take care of yourself during this time.

cyncity831

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« Reply #2 on: May 03, 2013, 10:13:26 pm »
I'm sorry for your loss.  I lost my mother years ago.  I understand the pain.

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Re: a very sad day for me
« Reply #3 on: May 04, 2013, 01:06:03 am »
anggie49~really,I feel for you, but a yr isn't enough time to get over your loss. Grieve as long as you need to; as for the pain, sadly it'll never go away but the sharpness of it will become dull as the years go by.A month ago, was my husband's death anniversary & it's been 4yrs since his death.Ya, it's still there, the pain, old & dull but still there. Yet, it still feels like, I've lost him like it was only yestrurday. :crybaby2: I  miss you HAS RIP2009 :peace: :heart: :crybaby2: :sad1: :angel11: :angel12: :wave:

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« Reply #4 on: May 04, 2013, 03:03:13 am »
sorry to hear that, I am sure she is watching over you.

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Re: a very sad day for me
« Reply #5 on: May 04, 2013, 04:31:52 am »
Prayers for you.  I, personally, am looking forward to being present with the Lord!
Have a wonderful day!

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« Reply #6 on: May 04, 2013, 07:26:59 am »
It is so sad when we lose our loved ones, but hang in there because there is no point in being sad all the time. I am sure  that your mom would not want that for you. Try to live every day to the fullest and just keep her in your memory. I think that is the best you can do until you meet again. :sad1: :heart: :heart: :heart:

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« Reply #7 on: May 04, 2013, 07:44:33 am »
I can understand how you feel on the loss. My mom died on May 3, 1997. Yesterday, she had been gone 16 years. She was my best friend and is still deeply missed. I hope you have a blessed weekend.  :angel11:

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« Reply #8 on: May 04, 2013, 07:50:26 am »
Im so sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts go out to you. healing is a long process and yes... it is VERY hard to accept it. My sister has been gone for over 55 yrs now. I never met her and it seems like yesterday. Also I lost my other sister 4 years ago and we were very tight. I miss her more than anything. We could talk about anything and still smile and laugh. I try to think of all the fun times we had together when I start to feel sad about her. It helps to think only the fun times and how much we laughed at things together. You are in our prayers and thoughts. Hope this will help anyone who has lost someone dear to them. Stay positive and think only of good times. :thumbsup:

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Re: a very sad day for me
« Reply #9 on: May 04, 2013, 07:59:07 am »
I am sorry for your loss.  My late grandmother has been gone for 23 years now.  But I know her spirit is with me.  My mother passed 17 years ago.  I lost my brother in-laws, one on January 31 and the other on April 12.  You must remember that, although we love them, God love them best, and He chose to call them home.  Be relieved that your mom is in a better place and she doesn't have to suffer.  Regardless of the fact that she is gone, she still lives in you, and you should cherish that fact. :angel11: :angel11: :angel11:

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Re: a very sad day for me
« Reply #10 on: May 04, 2013, 08:00:47 am »
I've lost my Mom too and I still miss her after 8 years. Mother's are at the center of a family so they are missed so much when they're no longer there to keep everyone together. It will not feel as bad with time but you will always miss her. Just try to keep the good memories close.

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Re: a very sad day for me
« Reply #11 on: May 04, 2013, 08:19:50 am »
it was 1 year ago that my mom passed away and it still hurts to think she is not here with me but i know she is in a better place now and she is not in pain i just wish i could of seen her before she passed away i know it takes time to heal but it doesn't stop my hurt of missing her so rip mom i will see you again i promise :angel11: :angel12: :( :'(

So sorry for your loss.  While I know every loss is hard, losing a parent, especially a Mom is by far harder.  Just keep the faith and remember she is watching over you and helping you through.  Say a prayer for her every day and maybe she'll even come visit you in your sleep.  I feel the same way about my Dad, who I lost 30 yrs. ago.  It really doesn't change the empty feeling and I miss him every single day.

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Re: a very sad day for me
« Reply #12 on: May 04, 2013, 08:39:03 am »
Aggie,
I am so sorry for your loss.  You are in my prayers.  You will see your Mom again.  She is with the Lord.  May the Lord give you His comfort and peace during this difficult time.
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Re: a very sad day for me
« Reply #13 on: May 04, 2013, 09:06:30 am »
 im sorry about your mom it is hard and mother day coming i still think of my brother who died at 45
and it still very hard for me deal special his b/d adversary and it will alway be as i will hold him close to
me in my heart.

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Re: a very sad day for me
« Reply #14 on: May 04, 2013, 09:27:05 am »
I've been sad for the last 2 days since Jeff Hanneman from Slayer died. :'( He was one of the greatest guitarists ever. :thumbsup:

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