so he said he loves me.

[vawnthefirst]

Today while my fiance was at the gym I'm at the dentist getting my tooth taken out..I really didn't want to do it alone but I just didn't want to go through another episode of were you just looking at that woman..or why do you always look at other women when your with me...the list can go on and on but I'm sure you women know what I mean some men probadly just can't help it but to look but it can injure the relationship causing  a woman to become bitter or insecure but instead of going through that I just don't take him with me anywhere it keeps us from the drama but ladies I do know I have a good manhe does cook breakfast when he gets home from work and other things he is such a sweetheart but tell me after a tooth removal why did he make me steak for dinner.

[mrisha]

Are you in love with this man?  Do you think he is being respectful when he ogles other women when he is with you?  I don't think so.

Better yet, does he even like you?  I think you have to think about your statement "you don't take him with you because he is busy looking at other women".  I think that says a lot because you should never have to do that, if this man wants, cares and respects you.

What's  with the steak and you have a sore tooth.   Are you sure this is the right man for you?  The man has a perverted sense of humor.  Good luck.

[PMZ908]

well it depends on what kind of steak it was and how he cooked it

[discardedheart]

well it depends on what kind of steak it was and how he cooked it

good point.

[SoontobeLane36]

Today while my fiance was at the gym I'm at the dentist getting my tooth taken out..I really didn't want to do it alone but I just didn't want to go through another episode of were you just looking at that woman..or why do you always look at other women when your with me...the list can go on and on but I'm sure you women know what I mean some men probadly just can't help it but to look but it can injure the relationship causing  a woman to become bitter or insecure but instead of going through that I just don't take him with me anywhere it keeps us from the drama but ladies I do know I have a good manhe does cook breakfast when he gets home from work and other things he is such a sweetheart but tell me after a tooth removal why did he make me steak for dinner.

If a man truly loves you I don't understand why they do that either. My boyfriend says it okay to look.   My dad has always said that it's not okay to look and it can get you into trouble. I agree with my dad. If the man that a woman has in her life truly loves her and thinks and says that she is the most beautiful woman in the world and really means it, then what reason does he have to even look at another woman?   I am just like you in feeling insecure because it makes me think that I'm not good enough for him or I'm not beautiful enough to keep him at bay or he has just out and out lied to me about how he feels about me.   When he does look at another woman I feel like he could very easily leave me for her or another woman he looks at because I feel like he is lusting after her when he looks at her and that makes me feel very insecure. I don't think men understand how much it hurts you and how sad it makes you  .   When a husband and wife are sitting at a table in a restaurant and the husband spots a good looking woman and can't keep his eyes off of her, I feel like smacking the snot out of him because he deserves it!   Sorry it's so long  

[unojuno]

no harm in looking at the menu, even if you are on a diet!!!  We're all human--and it's a natural response to check-out the opposite gender. He's with YOU, so don't worry needlessly!

[amyh62270]

The true question is "How does he treat you?"  Sounds like he treats you very well.  Yes, he may look at the "menu" just as long as he doesn't ORDER off that menu.  He should try to be more discreet about it.  I have been married a long time...I have caught my husband looking at times, it annoyed me at first.  But, I would rather him do it in front of me.

[mara7]

I think women need to start stare at the other men around, hopefully, it will
get their attention.  See what it feels like.

[cynybiny68]

First, you need to speak in actual sentences.  Then you need to be honest with him and yourself.  Pick your battles and if you really love him, you need to learn to accept some, only some, of his little idiosincrecies(sp?).  Looking at other women is not one that you should accept.

[AmyTrivitt]

WTF!!! Well I can honestly say any man will look at other another woman its natural, if you say yours doesnt then your blind, (im not saying they look at others in a sexual way what so ever they just look)!! But with you beside him. NO, you should tell him, maybe he doesnt realize that or do like the others said and check other guys out in front of him!!! Men will be men.
And the steak I wouldnt read to much into it, it was the thought that counts. Honestly. Maybe he was unaware

[bmorebabe25]

As long as its a look but dont touch deal, i mean i would think that everyone thats human looks, right?

[tareila]

maybe you should hire two private detectives to follow each other and you and your man can get some popcorn and watch the outcome hahah