Accentuate the positive and learn from the negative. We hug and love our children now more than ever as they grow and learn from their mistakes on their own up in college(positive) and forgive/forget their negatives: wild parties, disrespect, poor decisions, wrecked cars/scooter, and arguments (negative). Finding more new and innovative ways to make cash (positive) paying astronomical taxes for stated, but yet to be seen, representation. Becoming more financially stable (positive) working over ninety five hours per week (negative). I believe that setbacks allow us to better enjoy and appreciate the good things in our lives. If everything were easy we would quickly become bored and have no appreciation for the things that we have.