Cheating, Boredom

[Mizzkizz7]

Has anyone ever thought about another person while in a relationship or married? Do you ever get bored in relationship or have you ever?
Want opinions, or past or current situations if any..

[bshee58]

I was married for 5 years, never thought about cheating on my husband, even though he didn't feel the same way, he cheated the whole time, so I left him and divorced him.

[Tresbn00]

I have thought about others and I know that my wife has. We each have a hall pass for different movie stars: her bucket list includes George Clooney and Mine has Tea Leoni. These are thoughts and not actions. We are both attractive and are quick to divert and fend off advances. I do not recognize advances because I am not vain and wear a wedding ring at all times. We have two wonderful kids which also helps kill any temptations. It seems easier to drift when you have been married longer, passion diminishes as does appreciation for each other. I think that sometimes people cheat because they cannot get, or are unwilling to ask for, something that they want in the relationship. I am not part of the trade-your-wife-in-for-a-younger-model society. My wife has never aged, is still sweet (a large percentage of the time), great with the kids, and fun to hang with.

[countrygirl12]

I don't know that people so much think about cheating but I have been told "everybody does" to answering the question about thinking about somebody else.

[countrygirl12]

I was married for 5 years, never thought about cheating on my husband, even though he didn't feel the same way, he cheated the whole time, so I left him and divorced him.

I know somebody who has been married close to 20 years and just found out their spouse has cheated on them the whole time.  smh.  And you wonder why young people want to stay single.

[Mizzkizz7]

I don't know that people so much think about cheating but I have been told "everybody does" to answering the question about thinking about somebody else.

Yeah, We are all human and as time goes on, people change. Feelings change. Marriage should be taken seriously but like we just read, and while some marriage couples are faithful and committed, they still are being cheated on. I feel like thinking of someone else is pretty much fantasizing not acting it out. Too scary out here to act out anything.

[countrygirl12]

I don't know that people so much think about cheating but I have been told "everybody does" to answering the question about thinking about somebody else.

Yeah, We are all human and as time goes on, people change. Feelings change. Marriage should be taken seriously but like we just read, and while some marriage couples are faithful and committed, they still are being cheated on. I feel like thinking of someone else is pretty much fantasizing not acting it out. Too scary out here to act out anything.

Well according to the Bible if you just think about it you have already committed adultery in your heart. So it is wrong either way. I guess in our minds it is not as bad as physically doing it.  People do change and this is why I guess feelings can change. But you need to know someone before you get married. But my cousin dated a girl for 5 years and then they got married and it didn't last a year . 

[autumnsparklemom]

I have been with my husband since 1989. And never have thought about anyone else.

[ancmetro]

    I do not like this question because...
    you are asking about very private matters.

[countrygirl12]

    I do not like this question because...
    you are asking about very private matters.

Then don't answer the question. Simple fix.

[Mizzkizz7]

    I do not like this question because...
    you are asking about very private matters.

Why are you commenting then? Stay off this thread.

[gwilson31]

I'll admit I have...but it doesn't mean I do anything.  I have been married 31 years. 

[Mizzkizz7]

I'll admit I have...but it doesn't mean I do anything.  I have been married 31 years. 

Thanks for being honest!!

[cateyes1]

I have and i'm not even married but I stay loyal to who I am with.

[snuggleycutejc]

something gotta give.