should a man take back an ex-wife?

[acurtsinger2]

saying another guy is cute isnt cheating..but iagree with you...couplesshould be loyal toeach other

[ajann1983]

Considering my exs, I will not take them back. I am on to start a new life and to find someone that treats me right. don't want to fall back into that same old crap that i was in before.

[Nancy5]

I think it all depends on why they became a ex in the first place.  My best friend married her boyfriend the day after she graduated high school basically to leave a bad family situation.  She was barely 18 he was lost 19.  They were oo young and immature.  The marriage lasted 1 year.  They didn't see each other for almost 5 years, but were invited to the same wedding, neither knew the other was going to be there.  They reconnected, started dating, fell back in love, got married, had 3 kids and are still together and still in love.  

[vickysue]

Take back my ex. isn't going to happen. He was a lying cheatin wife beater. No way that is like asking for the same trouble again. Oh did i mention was also a boozer also. 

[fillfran82]

should a man take back his ex-wife? if she has not remarried, a divorced couple could reconcile, however, Deuteronomy 24:1-4 says that when the lady's new husband divorces her
or dies, the former husband is not to take her back, as she has been defiled. I have been in 4 relationships, one turning into a marriage, and when they cheat on me, I dump them, and
I get begging from them every day, however, I don't take them back. I have been cheated on 10 times, and if I am in a new relationship, I will have to tell the lady that I am dating that
I don't want her to cheat on me. to me, I consider it cheating if she says another guy is cute. with me, it is a two-way street, if she wants me to be loyal, than she has to be loyal as well. one time, I dated someone that was jealous of me because I had a celebrity crush on Kristi Yamaguchi, however, she thought it was okay to go out dancing with another guy. the point is, I never take back an ex-wife.

Hello It depends on the couple if they should remarried or not. If you both divorced on good terms and you both are still in love I don't see why you can't remarry. Contrastingly if your divorce was messy and you still have hard feelings toward each other maybe it's not a good idea to remarry. Me personally I don't believe in divorce at all. I plan to marry only once that's it. I'm sorry that you've been cheated on. You just were dating the wrong women. In a good relationship you both will agree on monogamy and you both will be faithful. I myself have been in a lot of bad relationships. I’ve cried my share of tears. I'm happy now I've found the one my babe Jeffrey Skeete.

[nickylanena]

I always say an ex is an ex for a reason. Take one back? Why? So it can not work all over again? 

That's a good point!!!

[timvolley]

im not married but i think it is up to the individual to decide whether or not to marry an ex or not

[ninajay]

I don't think I could take an ex back either.  They became an ex for a reason, but I guess it would depend on the situation 

[squirrelgirl44]

I don't see why anyone would do that. For reals. I mean, divorce is not something to be taken lightly, at least, it wasn't for me. I could not imagine going through all that heartache and time and money just to end up back with the same person. Divorce does not eliminate all the problems you had while married.

[tzs]

It doesn't matter if its an ex or not. The real question is whether or not you even care enough to make that relationship work again, if you truly still love them, otherwise it may not be worth it anymore. See what the stakes are, then make a decision.

[gaylasue]

I'm a once & done person myself.  If it didn't work out the first time, what makes you think it will be any better the second time around?  Some people will change but they usually don't stay that way for very long.

[melissaotto1982]

There would be to many trust issue for me!

[kingozzy]

I would say I would never take back an X, but I have had friends that have.  It will eventually backfire but I can only tell them what I think I cant make them do what should be done

[clydebirman]

You should never take back an ex-wife, they are an ex for a reason, my ex-wife left me after 10 years being together and after 6 months she called me and said she was 99% regretting leaving me and wanted to go out for drinks and talk about getting back together. Of course I said No. And a month later signed the divorce papers that she drew up in court. IT took me 3 years later to meet the right woman and this past July we got married and let me tell you My Marriage this time is way better then my last. I'm way more complete and happy then before. My Ex-wife was way to controlling with me and with my money since she didn't work hardly at all in 10 years that we were together. If yours is coming to you asking to take her back enjoy my saying and it goes: If you love someone sent them free and if they come back it's because nobody else wanted them either. So my advise to you is to leave her in the past where she belongs and move on with your life ahead.    

[mark81265]

Not if shes a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater.