Dating a control freak

[brian8713]

Appreciate the advice from both of you. I could see myself very unhappy in the long-term in such a relationship. Not sure I'd be able to make it. Gives me a lot of thinking to do, and I appreciate everyone's candor here. No need to mince words with me.

[dreamyxo]

He is not going to change either accept him completely for all his flaws or walk away.

[ancmetro]

    If his house is a mess...so is his life.
    I do not deal with people like that...
    I avoid them at all cost!

[gaylasue]

If you are having issues before living together, I would seriously think hard about the idea of living together.  I don't like people who try to control me.

[countrygirl12]

Yeah, I do find myself happiest when I'm single.

Then WHY do you keep getting in to relationships and complaining about being unhappy?  This is not the first time you have posted something like this. If you are happier being single --- Then be single. 

[alice44]

Get away as fast as you can.  Remember the times you don't like him and RUN

[brian8713]

Yeah, I do find myself happiest when I'm single.

Then WHY do you keep getting in to relationships and complaining about being unhappy?  This is not the first time you have posted something like this. If you are happier being single --- Then be single.

Good advice. I admire your bluntness.

[madeara]

Hello,
This makes me so sad.  Why are you still with him?  You deserve much better.  Leave this guy and be with a guy who will love you for who you are.  Please don't tolerate his control and abuse.

[countrygirl12]

Yeah, I do find myself happiest when I'm single.

Then WHY do you keep getting in to relationships and complaining about being unhappy?  This is not the first time you have posted something like this. If you are happier being single --- Then be single.

Good advice. I admire your bluntness.

lol. I don't do the coddle thing.  Most snowflakes do not like me. haha

But seriously, if you are unhappy in relationships then be single. Nothing wrong with that. You can have friends and even friends you go out with. But live by yourself. You and your cat. Or was it a dog? Thought you had something with fur.

You do what you want, when you want, and how you want.  You eat what you want and you don't have to save candy wrappers for keepsakes. (rolling eyes here)   

You def do not want to let someone move in to YOUR residence that makes you unhappy!

[autumnsparklemom]

Sounds like an unbalanced relationship. Think about yourself. Go with your gut instinct.

[BATISTAGIRL663]

Get out now!!!!

[Skyisbluetoday]

          If you seem to like this guy for certain traits, I would have a talk with him to see if he could give you the benefit of the doubt. Compromise with a few things, but not to many though. If he can't see things your way, I would be gone. Plenty of fish outside, nobody should be told what to do with their time. Good Luck!         

[heypeg]

Run as fast as you can, if he treats you this way now imagine how it will be after he moves in with you.

[Yukichan77]

Personally, I could never deal with a control freak. I like being able to be my own person and make my own decisions. If you truly feel the relationship is toxic, I would say perhaps it's time to end things. I don't think any toxic relationship is worth it. Ultimately, it's up to you, though.

[ghunter]

Yes, run don't walk....