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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #15 on: July 03, 2019, 02:04:48 pm »

  Do not give anyone your name!
  Your name is your name.
  Why is he asking your name?
  Good question?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           
  What is he going to with your name?

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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #16 on: July 03, 2019, 02:09:01 pm »
I did  for about a yea, he would follow me a lot, then started  following me in his  pickup. Told my cousin about it and he told me to come to the house and blow my horn, I did and he  flew out of his house with a baseball bat in his  hand and whacked the man with it.  also the window shield .  Told him if he ever caught him  following me again he would wish he hadn't.  By the  good ol  cousin weighed about 340 and  stood about  6'8'.  Then I started getting obscene phone  calls. The police  put a tracking system on it and yep same  guy. anyway he went to jail for awhile, I got an unlisted phone number and listed it under my  mothers maiden name.  Then moved  away to another  town a year later. Scary people out ther

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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #17 on: July 03, 2019, 03:03:00 pm »
Yes, I had a stalker and it was horrific and very stressful.  I had never experienced anything even close to what I went thru.
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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #18 on: July 03, 2019, 03:14:05 pm »
I'm happy to say, no I've never had a stalker and I hope I never do! 

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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #19 on: July 03, 2019, 03:22:58 pm »
No I  never had one, and pray that I never do; they  sound dangerous and scary. That's why we all need to be aware of our surroundings and careful about information we share online!!!

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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #20 on: July 04, 2019, 12:30:37 am »
I had to threaten a guy that I was going to file a stalking injunction if he didn't stop demanding my attention.  He was harmless but very annoying with the fact that he couldn't leave me alone.
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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #21 on: July 04, 2019, 12:36:24 am »
I am sorry to hear about your stalker threat Mizzkizz7. I've never had an actual stalker, but I've had a few things happen in my life that made me think twice and feel somewhat threatened. Once a man called our house and told my mother he'd seen her leave our home and told her what our address was. She hung up right away but it was unnerving. Another time an estranged family member called our home repeatedly with prank calls until I demanded that they stop. I hope others never have any issues like these or with stalkers.

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« Reply #22 on: July 04, 2019, 04:50:30 am »
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #23 on: July 04, 2019, 05:13:11 am »
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #24 on: July 04, 2019, 06:47:29 am »
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

lol.  I just would be speechless if somebody walked up to me and said I know your tag number.  That sounds like a cheesy lame pick up line.  I do not trust anybody.  Years ago I gave a ride to a "friend" just someone I use to work with. But today I probably would not even do that.  You don't really know anybody.  And people are crazy.

At least mine did apologize before he died. :D

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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #25 on: July 04, 2019, 07:06:43 am »
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

lol.  I just would be speechless if somebody walked up to me and said I know your tag number.  That sounds like a cheesy lame pick up line.  I do not trust anybody.  Years ago I gave a ride to a "friend" just someone I use to work with. But today I probably would not even do that.  You don't really know anybody.  And people are crazy.

At least mine did apologize before he died. :D

How do you know that before mine passes he wont apologize? yee of little faith ha ha ha ha na na nana na LOL
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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #26 on: July 04, 2019, 07:47:35 am »
no.. no stalkers...and i hope to never have one...that was creepy
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Re: Ever had a stalker?
« Reply #27 on: July 04, 2019, 08:07:43 am »
nope unless you count identity theft

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« Reply #28 on: July 04, 2019, 08:14:26 am »
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

lol.  I just would be speechless if somebody walked up to me and said I know your tag number.  That sounds like a cheesy lame pick up line.  I do not trust anybody.  Years ago I gave a ride to a "friend" just someone I use to work with. But today I probably would not even do that.  You don't really know anybody.  And people are crazy.

At least mine did apologize before he died. :D

How do you know that before mine passes he wont apologize? yee of little faith ha ha ha ha na na nana na LOL

Well....
I guess he could. lol
Most times that is very unusual.  I think the only reason this guy did is because he found out he was eat up with cancer.

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« Reply #29 on: July 04, 2019, 08:19:47 am »
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

lol.  I just would be speechless if somebody walked up to me and said I know your tag number.  That sounds like a cheesy lame pick up line.  I do not trust anybody.  Years ago I gave a ride to a "friend" just someone I use to work with. But today I probably would not even do that.  You don't really know anybody.  And people are crazy.

At least mine did apologize before he died. :D

How do you know that before mine passes he wont apologize? yee of little faith ha ha ha ha na na nana na LOL

Well....
I guess he could. lol
Most times that is very unusual.  I think the only reason this guy did is because he found out he was eat up with cancer.

Put it this way, my son was about 13 when this all happened and he is 37 now, so maybe the guy passed already, he never apologized the rat ba***** oh well. Did you forgive your stalker?

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