My best friend flaked on me!!!

[mrisha]

Sorry that happened to you.  I am sure there is a big reason as to why she ended the friendship. 

[PGS28]

I'm so sorry to hear that, my condolesces.

I'm sorry.  It is hard when you lose your best friend either from problems between you or in my case, my best friend died in a car crash.

[PGS28]

She wouldn't have been my best friend, or friend of any kind, after the second time she flaked me with no explanation.

So my best friend who has been my best friend since 3rd grade had been acting differently lately. I had invited her to several events. Each time she would say she wants to come and then flake out on me and leave me hanging. I know she has someone new she is dating so I just decided to give her space. I gave myself space from her for a month until she eventually called me up and we went back to talking. Recently I have been having issues with my new phone. She came over to a cookout I invited her to claiming that I blocked her. I asked why would I invite you to my home and my cookout if I felt this way? She left saying she would return but she never did. She was quite rude to me after and told me I was better off blocking her. Well 28 years of friendship is over. I been having a horrible week. If you read my other posts you will know just what I mean.

[cateyes1]

Sorry about that. I like just being alone anyways

[stevensm4]

It really seems like a good friend is hard to come by...

[ghunter]

She was not a true friend, maybe it is time to move on.

[UGetPaid]

I really don't have anything new to add here. I was just bored and decided to go back and find the oldest possible thread to comment on that was not locked due to ho long ago the last reply to it was posted. So - here it is...
 

[ssarber]

lol well it is getting harder and harder to find things to comment on. Good idea. 

[plennis]

She was NOT your best friend. I don't know why you called her that.

Best friends have your back and don't treat you like that. 

Sorry, but if she feels that way maybe just give her some time to work out whatever it is that she is going through.  It's not your problem.

[UGetPaid]

lol well it is getting harder and harder to find things to comment on. Good idea. 

Am I a bad person for doing it again?

[ssarber]

lol well it is getting harder and harder to find things to comment on. Good idea. 

Am I a bad person for doing it again?

Nope! Do what you gotta do, right?

[dsawan]

Any time they distance themselves over so many years is a sign a friendship has ended. You have to move on! They move on, you move on and survive! its as easy as that!

[oldbuddy]

At least you didn't get her on a stage in front of a few thousand people so you could slap her in the face   

[UGetPaid]

Some people could really use a public slap across the face in front of a large crowd though, don't you think?

[apolojjize]

After 28 years of friendship, it’s hard to accept that things can change so suddenly. I tried to be patient, giving my best friend space when she seemed distant. When she came to my cookout and accused me of blocking her, I was shocked — why would I invite someone I had blocked? It felt like the final crack in something I thought was unbreakable. That night, as I sat alone cleaning up, I noticed the old Patek watch she gave me for my 30th birthday. It reminded me of better times, when loyalty meant something. I guess some things, like that Patek, are made to last — but not all friendships are.