am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??

[debraleesparks]

 :thumbsup:I'm a retired bartender, and I've seen, and heard a lot!! If a girl comes up to you, she's intersted in you, so it really dosen't matter what you say.Just say something like, ' What's your favorite t.v. show ? and then, let her talk.. just keep asking questions like that, and pretty soon you'll feel comfortable talking to her.  And if a girl comes up to you that you DON'T want to talk to.. ask her who her favorite dress designer is, and say that your just MAD about Versace.. and of course.. she'll leave you alone !!!{she'll think your gay}

[j_salinas81]

Not true!!! Most guys don't know how to talk to women. If your single and trying to get a woman most guys have the most ridiculous p/u lines I have ever heard. Or they are just thinking they are so sexy & that any woman wants them. If your married...well guys are just idiots. My husband wouldn't know how to talk to me if his life depended on it.
If you want a girl you just need to be honest and relaxed when you speak to them. Keep it in your head that they are just another person on the street to make small talk with and let it develop from there. Unless they are one of those self centered girls then just give up.

[jamiexwalker]

Girls aren't honestly that hard to talk to when you know what they're interested in.  I think it's harder to approach a woman than to hold a conversation!  Find out a little bit of what the girl likes and approach her with something pertaining to her interests, then she'll know that you actually care enough to hold a conversation about something she enjoys!

[vigoroso2009]

  Relax, take a deep breath and answer back nicely, without showing too much emotion.  pay compliments on her attire, her hairstyle and observe what she is doing while talking to you.  Does she have a cell phone with her? Ask about the features, be creative and use her body language to your advantage.

   Shyness will work on your favor, slowly let her know about it and soon enough she will be willing to help you improve your social skills.  Sound difficult?  No, its very simple.   Try, nothing to loose and something to gain.    Good luck.

[salsaverde99]

dont stress it out. just be you.

[lucy1991]

U should relax chill and Mayb don't b zoo nervous. Shy

[debraleesparks]

ust let her know you are shy, but would eally like to get to know her.. SHE will do ALL the talking !!! hahahahahaha