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Azanne07

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how many kids
« on: January 14, 2018, 03:40:17 pm »
How many kids is enough?

How many kids were enough for you?

I have seriously been debating this one a lot in my head.

I am almost 30 I have 2 babies a girl and a boy. shes 2 and hes 3.

Part of me really wants another baby while the other part of me likes the fact that they are getting closer to school.

I don't know I feel this huge internal conflict. and I cant seem to sort it all out. Hopefully I will just be able to figure out what I want before its too late.
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camellia0

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2018, 03:57:43 pm »
If you two are able to afford another child and have the time for another child, then have one. Just make sure that you have time for another child.

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2018, 04:11:39 pm »
Boy, only you and God can answer that question.  Good luck to you either way.
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Re: how many kids
« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2018, 04:16:58 pm »
I canít answer that for you, only you and your husband/partner can.  Can you afford another?  Do you have the time for another?  Only you can answer that.
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Re: how many kids
« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2018, 04:29:59 pm »
For me zero.

Azanne07

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #5 on: January 14, 2018, 05:19:14 pm »
I can’t answer that for you, only you and your husband/partner can.  Can you afford another?  Do you have the time for another?  Only you can answer that.

I told my boyfriend in the beginning that I wanted a big family and if he didn't there was the door. I was just threw a divorce and I wasn't compromising what I wanted. I was going to seek someone out that wanted the same things as me.

yes we could afford another, but only because ive been working so hard to get where I am

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #6 on: January 14, 2018, 06:19:14 pm »
God time is the right time.  Blessed are the fruit of the womb.  You will find the answer within your heart to do the right thing to have or not to have another child.

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #7 on: January 14, 2018, 07:54:47 pm »
I think it depends! For me 4 kids would be enough...but who am I to tell someone they have too many kids!
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Re: how many kids
« Reply #8 on: January 14, 2018, 10:19:12 pm »
If you can financially afford another child then I suppose it all depends on how you feel and how your partner feels.

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #9 on: January 15, 2018, 12:07:14 am »
First off, you are still very young and lucky that you have kids before the 30ties... some moms are not.

There is not a limit number.. if you can afford to have one or more, why not? If you love kids, I think it's a beautiful thing to have a big family!  :in-love:

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #10 on: January 15, 2018, 04:16:51 am »
I have three boys and that is more than enough for me. I trade hem for nothing in this world. :angel11:

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #11 on: January 15, 2018, 05:58:05 am »
The Lord only blessed me with one precious daughter.  Would have loved to have had more but wasn't in the Lord's plans.  I now have one beautiful grandson.  Not for sure if I want any more or not...
Have a wonderful day!

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #12 on: January 15, 2018, 06:15:34 am »
It all comes down to you, it's your body, don't stress yourself out, if it's for you, then you will feel it.

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Re: how many kids
« Reply #13 on: January 17, 2018, 10:07:32 pm »
I have 2 amazing handsome young boys they are my world and my life
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Re: how many kids
« Reply #14 on: January 18, 2018, 09:00:36 am »
I don't know about anyone else but one was enough for me!  I really wanted three but was only blessed with one.  I have one grandchild.
Have a wonderful day!

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